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		<published>2009-06-02T17:00:00Z</published>
		<updated>2009-06-02T21:02:23Z</updated>
		<title>Personhood</title>
		<summary>UPDATE: Closing comments for a while, so folks can cool down. As a point on etiquitte, if you find yourself dominating the thread, along with one other person, over a side point, consider and exchange of e-mail. UPDATE#2: Comments back...</summary>
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			<name>Ta-Nehisi Coates</name>
			
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			<![CDATA[<b>UPDATE: </b>Closing comments for a while, so folks can cool down. As a point on etiquitte, if you find yourself dominating the thread, along with one other person, over a side point, consider and exchange of e-mail. <br /><br /><b>UPDATE#2: </b>Comments back open. Respect the other people in this thread guys. Don't dominate the conversation with minutiae that primarily interest you and your antagonist. It makes for a depressing, unenlightening read.<br /><br />I hate to draw Megan back into this, as I sense she's tired of debating abortion. But, I want to address a side-point in that debate which Megan and I have sparred over before, and in the process refine my own thinking over personhood, slavery and abortion. Here's <a href="http://meganmcardle.theatlantic.com/archives/2009/06/a_really_long_post_about_abort.php">Megan</a>:<br /><br /><blockquote>But in this case, <b>I think the analogy to slavery is important, for two
reasons.&nbsp; First of all, it was the last time we had an extended,
society-wide debate about personhood.&nbsp; And second of all, as now, there
were structural political reasons that it was much harder--nearly
impossible--to change slavery through the existing political process...</b><br /><br />Listening to the debates about abortion, it seems to me that really
broad swathes of the pro-choice movement seem to genuinely not
understand that this is a debate about personhood, which is why you get
moronic statements like "If you think abortions are wrong, don't have
one!"&nbsp; If you think a fetus is a person, it is not useful to be told
that you, personally, are not required to commit murder, as long as you
leave the neighbors alone while they do it.<br /><br /><b>Conversely, if
Africans are not people, then slavery is not wrong.&nbsp; Or at least it's
arguably not wrong--if Africans occupy some intermediate status between
persons and animals**, then there is at least a legitimate argument for
treating them like animals, rather than people.<br /><br />The difference
between our reaction to the two is that now we know Africans are
people.&nbsp; It seems ridiculous to think that anyone ever thought they
might not be people.&nbsp; They meet all the relevant criteria for
personhood in twenty-first century America.</b><br /><br />But of course, those
criteria are socially constructed.&nbsp; The definition of personhood (and,
related, of citizenship) changes over time...<br /></blockquote>I think the thinking and motives of slaveholders, was more complicated than this. In some cases, they may well have not believed that blacks were "people," but more often they argued that "people" weren't equal.&nbsp; Here's Alexander Stephens, Vice-President of The
Confederacy, for instance, in his famous Cornerstone speech:<br />
<br />
<blockquote>&nbsp;The prevailing ideas entertained by him and most of the
leading statesmen at the time of the formation of the old constitution,
were that the enslavement of the African was in violation of the laws
of nature; that it was wrong in principle, socially, morally, and
politically....Those ideas, however, were fundamentally wrong. They rested upon the
assumption of the equality of races. This was an error. It was a sandy
foundation, and the government built upon it fell when the "storm came
and the wind blew."<br />
  <br />
  <b>Our
new government is founded upon exactly the opposite idea; its
foundations are laid, its corner- stone rests, upon the great truth
that the negro is not equal to the white man; that slavery
subordination to the superior race is his natural and normal condition.
This, our new government, is the first, in the history of the world,
based upon this great physical, philosophical, and moral truth. </b><br />
</blockquote>

Stephens doesn't so much reject that blacks are persons, as much as he rejects the idea that all persons are are equal. Moreover, slavery was much more complicated than, say, animal domestication. Slave-masters often allowed--indeed encouraged--slaves to engage in acts common among people. Slaves married. Slaves were baptized. Slaves were converted to attend Christianity--and even attended white churches, at times. Slaves and masters exchanged gifts on Christmas. Slaves were allowed to hire themselves out and buy their own freedom. Slaves were manumitted by masters. The point is that what you see in all of that is something more complicated than "Are Africans people?" The better question seems to be "Are black people equal to whites?"<br />
<br />But more than that, core reason an abortion/slavery comparison falls down lay in the actions of the enslaved, versus the inability of action amongst embryos. Abortion is a debate between two groups over the ultimate fate of embryos.&nbsp; The Anti-Slavery fight was a violent struggle between two groups over the fate of the enslaved, but with the enslaved as indispensable actors. Unlike embryos, black people were very capable of expressing their thoughts about their own personhood, and never held it in much doubt. Whereas the fight against abortion begins with pro-lifers asserting the rights of embryos, the fight against slavery doesn't begin with the abolitionists, but with the Africans themselves who resisted. <br /><br />I think people who equate the fight miss that crucial distinction. I think that's why they're more likely to invoke John Brown than, say, Nat Turner--it clouds the analogy. That said even in accepting&nbsp; John Brown as a stand-in for to pro-life vigilantes, you must also say that&nbsp; pro-life vigilantes generally don't have armed embryos raiding with them. There is no embryo equivalent to&nbsp; Mackandal in Haiti, the Maroons in Jamaica, the multi-racial Seminoles of Florida, Harriet Tubman, Frederick Douglass, David Walker etc.<br /><br />The anti-abortion fight relies on people with voices speaking for the presumably voiceless. The anti-slavery fight relies, first and foremost, on the enslaved asserting their own freedom. The works and arguments of abolition don't mean much if the blacks, themselves, don't believe in their personhood. Indeed one of the great arguments for slavery was that the blacks actually liked it, that they wanted to be enslaved. As a pro-choicer, I don't think I'd argue that any child would "want" to have been aborted.<br /><br />I haven't yet worked this out, but if you're looking for a moral corollary, it seems to me that the ethics of veganism are actually much closer, in that it involves two parties debating the rights of something that can barely conceive of the terms. <br /><br />I need to think on that some more, though.<br />]]>
			
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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This debate, although interesting philosophically, seems to me beside the point. </p>

<p>Many, many people (including me) support the availability of abortion even though they  dislike it very much and wouldn't choose it for themselves. This is because women will put themselves into extremely dangerous situations in order to get an illegal abortion. They have since the beginning of time, for whatever reasons seem important enough to them. </p>

<p>I hate abortion-- I think it is awful. I wouldn't have chosen it for myself.  But i will not agree to forcing a young woman to put her own head on the chopping block in order to solve what she thinks is an untenable situation. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:10:47Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203850</id>

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		<title>Comment from Black Magic Woman on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>IMO, the only personhood status that needs consideration is that of the woman carrying a fetus.  That woman should have more rights than any fetus.  As a woman myself, I am not here on this earth as an incubator.  When I choose to become pregnant, I'd like that to be a true choice.  </p>

<p>I cannot get out of my head the images of women who died as the result of a botched abortions.  If anyone has known a desperate friend who is pregnant and doesn’t want to be, it is truly harrowing to think such a person may be forced to give birth.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:14:20Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from DaveinHackensack on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This is a good post overall, well thought out. It's worth mentioning too that slavery goes back thousands of years, and in its various iterations, I don't know if it ever required as its justification the view that the slaves weren't people. For that matter, in most cases, it probably didn't require for the slaves to be of an inferior race, since in many cases, the slaves and the slave-owners were of the same race. </p>

<p>Megan isn't the first to make the slave-fetus analogy though; years ago, this analogy was made by an African American pro-lifer (whose name I forget).</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:15:53Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203862</id>

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		<title>Comment from adamnvillani on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Thanks, TNC --- I'm pro-life and this is the first piece on abortion I've read in years that actually contributed something new to the argument.</p>

<p>Let me just add that what we're really fighting for is not full personhood for the unborn, but just the bare minimum. Nobody's asking for the unborn to hold property, enter into contracts, be taxed, etc. What we're saying is that really the most basic right anybody can have, the one without which all other rights are meaningless, is the right not to be killed. If society still lets people kill you and suffer no consequences (or even be paid for it out of the public coffers), then you're lower than a dog.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:20:23Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203864</id>

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		<title>Comment from sv on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>That embryos can't act doesn't really mean that they don't possess personhood, however - it only means, IF they are 'persons', that they are particularly dependent and voiceless, doesn't it?  This would only bolster the pro-life position.</p>

<p>Also, you want to fix this: </p>

<blockquote>Whereas the fight against <b>abortion</b> [not slavery] begins with pro-lifers asserting the rights of embryos, the fight against slavery doesn't begin with the abolitionists, but with the Africans themselves who resisted.</blockquote>

<p>lebecka, don't you think that it's <i>central</i> to the debate, because some people think embryos at any stage are equivalent to you or I?  Or is it irrelevant because you think it's obvious that they are not?  I thought that was essentially what this was all about. (Although, the anti-abortion rhetoric can tend to include demonization of any woman who seeks an abortion, as if it's a frivolity.)  If the fetus or embryo IS a person, then it would have rights which are not necessarily subordinate to the mother's own rights.  I'm not really sure it makes sense to consider a fertilized embryo as a person who is being murdered in an abortion, but it isn't obvious to me.</p>

<p>And finally - vocab alert!   <i>manumit</i>.   to emancipate from slavery.  I have never, ever heard of this word before.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:23:51Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Tinare on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This is my take exactly.  I think too often the pro-life side of the debate thinks that all pro-choice advocates are pro-abortion.  I'm not.  I hate that it exists.  Just like I hate that war exists.  But I also don't believe that war will ever go away.  And while that's not a clean analogy to abortion, I don't believe that abortion should be illegal.  I can't make a decision for another woman that says that she absolutely has to carry a pregnancy to term.  I think to often the agonizing decision to abort a pregnancy is treated as though women made that decision lightly.  But ultimately I think that is a decision best made between a woman and her doctor, not the state.  </p>

<p>Which I would have thought was a Libertarian ideal.  I guess I don't know that much about that philosophy.  However, I am highly disturbed by Megan's logic that seems to justify murder in cases where individuals somehow think that their political views are not being heard by the government. At least that was how I read her argument.  But I'm not a fan of Megan.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:25:47Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from theLaird on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I think it bears noting that the relationship between a mother an her unborn child is not comparable to that of a slave-owner and a slave, and this is where the comparison falls down.  <br />
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:25:50Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from sv on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>...don't you think that it's central to the debate, because some people think embryos at any stage are equivalent to you or I? </blockquote>

<p>i realize that i've oversimplified the anti-abortion stance here, as per adamnvillani's comment - it's about some degree of personhood, but the point still stands.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:27:49Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>TNC,</p>

<p>In addition, the argument over slavery also involved the question "Does inequality between people justify slavery, even if we agree Blacks and Whites are not equal?" As you well know, not all abolitionists and free-soilers believed in racial equality. Lincoln himself stated that he believed the Black Man to be inferior to the White Man, yet insisted that inequality between people did not justify slavery. Lincoln even pointed out that since not all white people were equal, the logic of slavery advocates led to the conclusion that a superior white man had the right to enslave an inferior white man. He ndticed of course that pro-slavery advocates were not willing to accept this conclusion.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:28:02Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Ta-Nehisi Coates on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>That embryos can't act doesn't really mean that they don't possess personhood, however - it only means, IF they are 'persons', that they are particularly dependent and voiceless, doesn't it? This would only bolster the pro-life position.</blockquote>

<p>Right, but I'm not arguing that embryos don't have personhood--I'm arguing that the fight against slavery was not simply a fight for black personhood, and thus it's not a particularly useful analouge. In the post I point out that quite a few slaveholders believed blacks were people--albeit inferior people. That doesn't mean they thought they were wrong for owning them.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:28:53Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203887</id>

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		<title>Comment from Ta-Nehisi Coates on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Exactly.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:36:41Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Josh Jasper on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Josh Jasper</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Slaves, as people or not-people, didn't exist *inside* of someone's body.  You didn't just "get slave" from having sex, consensual or not.</p>

<p>Not the same thing as far as I can tell.  We can end slavery, but controlling one's own fertility is necessary for civilization.  That's going to include people wanting to end pregnancies, and finding the means to do so, no matter what the law says.  Even in Nicaragua, where doctors are forced to report women they *suspect* of having abortions, and those women can be jailed if they're found to have had one, women are still getting abortions, illegally, and putting their lives at risk to do so.   That ought to tell the anti-choicers something, right there.  Women are willing to risk dying rather than have to give birth sometimes.  </p>

<p>But beyond that, removing abortion from the context of the US's history with contraception awareness and the law is a fools errand - we <b>do</b> live in a country where the people making the laws restricting abortion access are the same ones making the laws that remove contraceptive choices.  You can't unplug the abortion issue from that.  Even if there's a anti-choicer out there who claims to be "OK" with contraception like Sarah Palin, the anti-choice movement and ant-choice politicians are the ones who're by and large quashing efforts to make access birth control easy to get, free, and to educate people about it.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:39:27Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from sv on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>okay.  so you would see the fight over slavery as a fight over true equality, as well as how people treat others they DO consider inferior.  Certainly this is a more nuanced view.  Analogies tend to get taken too far sometimes, anyway.  Slavery existed long before it primarily became a white-European-on-black-African phenomenon for which, occasionally, the 'black as a mere beast of burden' argument was trotted out, especially in its earlier years; i think it was long seen as one of the natural spoils of victory, and consequently as the expression of the 'proof' of superiority that some conquest or other provided.</p>

<p>We seem to be getting away from the abortion-personhood debate here.  which i'm rather weary of myself, although i wouldn't be if i strongly believed that life (not just technically but life as we know it, 'ensoulment') begins at conception.  it's a mystery..  i guess i am almost necessarily intuiting this, but i just don't see it that way.  we know that lots of fertilizations take place, lots of implantations on the uterine wall take place, without developing into what can be termed a pregnancy, that they fail and just get sort of washed out with the next menses, but does anyone consider this some great famine-level tragedy?  that isn't really a strong argument, i know, it's just one piece of what makes me think the way i do on this.  i gotta think on it some more.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:40:43Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203897</id>

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		<title>Comment from dmf on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>dmf</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I think that you are right that the "philosophical" debate here is besides the point but that is because Megan's point was not, as I understood it, about "personhood" or lack of, but about what happens when the legal/political system shuts out certain perspectives/commitments about which people are willing to kill and or die for and as such leaves people feeling like they need to take up arms, and here might be more like the Black Panthers or other groups which see themselves as being called to action in defense of extra-legal/govt. ideals.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:42:03Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203900</id>

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		<title>Comment from RL on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>RL</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>It may be beside the point of the abortion debate. </p>

<p>But there is something important here. Ante-bellum Southerners understood the humanity of their slaves but enslaved them anyways. Literacy, for example, was legally restricted. I've wondered about the logic of such laws -- if slaveowners believed there was an "inferior race", then the inferiority of that race obviates the need for antiliteracy laws. I mean, we don't have to pass laws banning literacy for dogs, cats, or wombats. </p>

<p>I didn't think it through to the conclusion. Now I understand. Obviously there's no justification for slavery. Case closed long ago. But those who sought to justify it using variations of "the inferior race" and "people in their proper place" arguments CLEARLY knew they were spewing BS because of the place in which they lived. Blacks married, were baptized, gave gifts, became Christian, sang spirituals, etc, as part of the ethos of the South. Everyone knew. </p>

<p>I honestly didn't think I could feel even worse about slavery. Now I do. Stupid me. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:43:49Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203907</id>

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		<title>Comment from kid bitzer on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>kid bitzer</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>bernard williams once made the excellent point that slave-holders did not think that they were engaging in bestiality when they had sex with black people.</p>

<p>they knew that they were people, alright. people you could have people-sex with, not bestiality-sex.</p>

<p>they were just people you could treat any way you wanted.</p>

<p>thanks for this post, tnc, it makes an excellent point about why abortion and slavery really are not very useful analogues of each other.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:46:39Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203913</id>

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		<title>Comment from sv on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>sv</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I'm tempted to trot out the 'safe, legal, and rare' talking point, because i strongly desire for abortion to be very rare and I strongly believe that the best way to go about acheiving this is to retain the "legal" part so we can keep the "safe" part while figuring out how best to change our society to make it more rare, which is in line with the larger goals of encouraging more healthy and responsible behavior society-wide.</p>

<p>That would be a side-step of this particular debate, although I think it would be more important, and would involve some of the stuff that the culture-war over abortion is about - women's sexuality, societal 'standards' of sexual behavior, the desire of some people to control and limit that behavior in a way that walks back a lot of the changes that have taken place in the past few decades here, etc.  When we get to where pregnancies *actually come from*, the debate tends to get a bit out of control.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:49:25Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203916</id>

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		<title>Comment from Tel on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Tel</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"That said even in accepting  John Brown as a stand-in for to pro-life vigilantes, you must also say that  pro-life vigilantes generally don't have armed embryos raiding with them. There is no embryo equivalent to  Mackandal in Haiti, the Maroons in Jamaica, the multi-racial Seminoles of Florida, Harriet Tubman, Frederick Douglass, David Walker etc"</p>

<p>The thing is, they don't accept the idea that there's a moral difference between an embryo and an adult human. So yes, pro-life vigilantes do believe they have (former) embryos raiding with them. There are also at least a couple of people within the pro-life movement who were children of "failed abortions" - they survived the procedure. Gianna Jessen is probably the most prominent of these. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:49:58Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>TNC, <br />
The problem with analogies is that they’re always going to fall apart at some point. They are only useful if we ignore, or better, accept their limitations. I think you’re right about the limitations of the slavery analogy. It’s not the same thing. The point of an analogy, though, is not to say that two situations are the same. Simply that there teachable are similarities. I don’t know if we should dismiss the similarities based solely on the genuine differences you point out. Likewise, the vegan comparison is only effective in that it deals with the very specific limitation of the initial analogy. But it has weak points the original analogy did not have. That is, vegans may argue in favor of an animal’s right not to be bred for slaughter, killed for meat, or otherwise treated cruelly, but they do not assert this because animals are people. It would be more accurate to say that vegans believe we should not do this because we are people and not animals. That we not only have the capacity for empathy, we also have the option to exercise that empathy. To some degree, it’s not about the animal any more than it is about the person knowing they can do harm and deciding against it. Conversely, the essential argument against killing a human fetus is, to pro-lifers, that it is killing a human being, and that all human beings deserve basic human rights.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:49:58Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203918</id>

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		<title>Comment from Ta-Nehisi Coates on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Ta-Nehisi Coates</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>So true. They produced off-spring with black people. Really, really great point. Also RL's point on literacy.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:51:35Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203920</id>

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		<title>Comment from sv on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>sv</name>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>they were just people you could treat any way you wanted.</blockquote>

<p>QFT</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:52:49Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203924</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>That is, to say that "there are teachable similarities." That will teach me not to add a word in the middle of a perfectly good sentence.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:54:11Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203928</id>

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		<title>Comment from glebert on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>glebert</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I think that veganism isn't the right analogy either, more like fruitarianism.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T17:56:20Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203933</id>

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		<title>Comment from kid bitzer on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>kid bitzer</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>another reason that megan is wrong.</p>

<p>we all know that the constitution was the result of some hard fighting between pro- and anti-slavery factions at the convention.</p>

<p>the pro-slavery factions eventually got their way, enshrining their language in several places in the constitution, e.g. article I section 2 (the 3/5 compromise), article I section 9 (safeguarding the slave-trade until 1808), article IV section 2 (the run-away slave provision).</p>

<p>in all of these places, slaves are referred to, euphemistically, as "persons".</p>

<p>and that's how the **pro-slavery** people referred to them. that was the language that **they** insisted on.</p>

<p>there was no debate about the person-hood of slaves. that is a fantasy brought to you by the anti-abortion industry.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:00:08Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203942</id>

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		<title>Comment from Juba on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Juba</name>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>Moreover, slavery was much more complicated than, say, animal domestication. Slave-masters often allowed--indeed encouraged--slaves to engage in acts common among people. Slaves married. Slaves were baptized. Slaves were converted to attend Christianity--and even attended white churches, at times. Slaves and masters exchanged gifts on Christmas. Slaves were allowed to hire themselves out and buy their own freedom. Slaves were manumitted by masters.</blockquote>

<p>I know this is assumed but I wanted to clarify anyway. "Some" should be understood before each of these examples, e.g.,</p>

<p>"Some" Slaves married. </p>

<p>"Some" Slaves and masters exchanged gifts on Christmas. </p>

<p>"Some" Slaves were allowed to hire themselves out and buy their own freedom, etc.</p>

<p>For those of us who havent studied antebellum slavery in depth.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:04:06Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203944</id>

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		<title>Comment from glebert on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I take back my fruitarianism comment, that is taking it way too far.<br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:05:21Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Juba on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Juba</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Great example of how a brillant if flawed person was able to distinguish between his personal inclinations and the ultimate authority of the law.</p>

<p>If only most people thought this way, gay marriage would be legal.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:05:32Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from wendy on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>wendy</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p><br />
The problem with the analogy is its totally backwards. </p>

<p>It's the woman who is biochemically altered and her flesh fed upon. She shares her bloodstream, calcium is leached from her bones, her kidneys and thyroid stressed to possible permanent reduction of capacity, it goes on for months and ends with something we rightly call "labor". It's often life-threatening -- throughout history until about 100 years ago, childbirth was *the* leading cause of death for women of reproductive age. Women endure this to serve the needs of another. </p>

<p>If I were to inflict any of the these conditions upon a neighbor against her will -- if she didn't want to serve my needs in such a way -- we all know which of us any jury in the land say was the one being enslaved.</p>

<p><br />
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:07:48Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Kylopod on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Kylopod</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p><i>The point is that what you see in all of that is something more complicated than "Are Africans people?" The better question seems to be "Are black people equal to whites?"</i></p>

<p>I think it was even more complicated than that. Recall Lincoln's argument that blacks are not equal to whites but are still deserving of basic human rights.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:11:07Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from whilome on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>whilome</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>TNC's veganism comparison seems more apt than the slavery analogy.  </p>

<p>I've had a child. I've had a miscarriage. I've also had an abortion.</p>

<p>I've been thinking about this debate this week, especially since several of my friends have become pregnant.  When I place my hands on a pregnant woman's belly, I feel somewhat possessive because she's bringing forth another member of my society, a person who may someday nurse me on my sickbed.  It's an acknowledgement of the communal experience of procreation.</p>

<p>However, I ain't in that woman's drawers every month before that, when she's sloughing away her uterine lining (which may or may not have contained spontaneously aborted embryos).  It's not my business to be in her fallopian tubes before the doctor removes her maladapted ectopic pregnancy that threatens to kill her.  It's simply nothing to do with the rest of us until SHE makes her choice.</p>

<p>If dudes could get pregnant, this wouldn't even be a debate.</p>

<p>Until that fetus can survive outside the woman, it has no rights.  Maybe science will come up with a way to diagnose pregnancy within days of conception and we could harvest the unwanted embryos and implant them into fecund Operation Rescue members.  Until then...</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:11:42Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from CitizenE on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>CitizenE</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>When I was in India, the second most populated nation in the world, I saw children whose limbs had been detatched as infants and small children to better enable them to beg and bring money to their family.  Anyone who tells me that they are speaking to for the unborn in a world in which our planet cannot sustain human population accelerating at its current rate hasn't seen such things. </p>

<p>It would be one thing if I were witness to a pro-life movement that was pro-life and pro-children in all aspects.  But it is simply the best wedge issue conservatives have going, and they will milk their following on this issue for political advantage till the cows come home.</p>

<p>Here's the teachable comparison to slavery.  Is is life altering work to bear a child inside one's body for nine months and then be default responsible for its raising for the next two decades? Would it be so if it was always from time immemorial to all future understanding be one particular group of humanity who is thus responsible?  Then take it one step farther--do it all at the bottom of the economic food chain.  The pro-life movement, by and large, is a pro-slavery movement upon whom women and those women who are poor will carry the burden.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:12:56Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203959</id>

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		<title>Comment from Herb on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Herb</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Hey, I'm all for giving the unborn "personhood."  But that means I'm actually 33 years old now, not 32.  It also means the state robbed me of 9 months of good drinking, 9 months of smoking, 9 months of voting, but on the plus side...I guess I'll get to retire 9 months early.</p>

<p>I get the philosophical debates in the abstract, but legally...and I'm glad to debate this with anyone...legally "personhood" starts on your <i>BIRTH</i> day.</p>

<p>And that has nothing to do with Roe V Wade.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:14:23Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203963</id>

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		<title>Comment from Picador on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Picador</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Exactly. Megan is correct that this is an issue of personhood: are women people (who, under Lockean property theory, own their own bodies), or are they slaves (who do not own their own bodies)?</p>

<p>If I am a slave with an elderly master who would die without my labour, this does not mean that I have an obligation to continue to serve as his slave. I am a person, and I can choose what to do with my body and my labour, even if it means that another person will die. The analogy to a woman with a fetus feeding off of and growing inside her body is, I hope, clear: even if one accepts the personhood of a fetus (I don't, but that's a separate issue), enslaving women to serve as their incubators is indefensible.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:16:55Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203969</id>

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		<title>Comment from zacksback on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>zacksback</name>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>We do live in a country where the people making the laws restricting abortion access are the same ones making the laws that remove contraceptive choices. </blockquote>

<p>That's the issue at the heart of this: not Roe, but Griswold. For men like Randall Terry, it's about controlling women's sexuality, not saving babies.  He said back in the 1980s that if he was successful at banning abortion, Operation Rescue would turn its focus to banning all forms of artificial birth control with the exception of condoms, because that's the only method that cannot be used "in secret" by the woman (i.e. you may not know your wife is on the pill, but it's pretty difficult to have sex and not know you're wearing a rubber).  Birth control that is used by men = biblically approved, birth control used by women = a sin.</p>

<p>Again: we are who we thought they were.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:25:10Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203975</id>

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		<title>Comment from Dan W on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Dan W</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I worry about this debate because I don't really think it's a debate. As both you and Sullivan noted yesterday (Linker, I believe was the original source of the quote), TNC, if you believe abortion is murder, then doesn't it make sense to want to kill abortionists? I realize that's not the logic of everyone who is pro-life, thankfully. However, when you make that jump to say without a doubt you are pro-life, is there anyway you can't call abortion murder? Isn't that why one is pro-life?</p>

<p><br />
The argument gets even more complicated when the popular "rape or incest" clause is thrown in...so then abortion is murder, but it's ok to commit that murder if it was the result of rape or incest? Regular murders don't tend to work that way, noting importantly that murder is pre-meditated, and so is abortion. In fact, the only person I can really think of who was found innocent in rape situation is Dante Stokes, who gunned down a priest who had molested him. So taking this view, one is passively saying that abortion is less than murder.</p>

<p><br />
The points you bring up to refute McArdle are very good points, but it bothers me that you have to argue on her ground--I know in this case you opted into this one, but I feel that the pro-life movement has really shaped how we talk about this issue. It's the same reason one can't be a "liberal" anymore--the right took that ground. Even now, I'm being very careful about what I write; every time this issue comes up, I feel like people are shocked by how pro-choice I am, even other pro-choice people.</p>

<p><br />
Let's get one thing clear that someone else already mentioned, but I feel I have to mention for the aforementioned reason--no one likes abortion. People really don't like late-term abortion. However, reading the letters on Sullivan's blog, it's often not a matter of choice--how did we ever get to the point where women who are in a pregnancy that could very well kill them, a pregnancy of a child who has such a severe birth defects that they will likely die shortly after birth, is somehow a flippant murderer? Or in this case, how is that person equivalent to a slave owner?</p>

<p><br />
I just think that in the end, Pro-Choice people may have conceded too much rhetorical ground. I don't even really see how this is a church issue, but that's beside the point, because we just can't win that fight. A child is something that forever changes one's life--and, though no one seems to want to admit this, it can be devastating for the woman giving birth to it. Furthermore, abortion will always happen. And if people want to see what the alternative is to safe, legal abortion, go see the brilliant Romanian movie "4 months, 3 weeks, 2 days." Absolutely terrifying.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:30:02Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203978</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This arguement is common, and it makes sense from a purely pragmatic point of view, but I never understood why people think it had moral force.  What you are saying is that the fact that abortion may be murder is irrelevant because even if you outlaw it people will still do it.  But the same thing can be said about murder and rape and anything that we outlaw really.  Of course people will still want to do it, if they didn't want to do it you wouldn't need a law.  And of course some people will still ignore that law the way they would ignore any law.  That doesn't mean that the law is wrong, it means people have a large capacity to ignore rules they don't like.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:34:21Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203982</id>

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		<title>Comment from jaye on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>jaye</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I think the relationship between the slave and slave-holder, or servant and master...is a little bit more complicated and weirder than that. There's this odd sort of logic and intimacy that develops. When I was visiting my family in India, I went with my aunt to visit one of her friends. There was a girl there that was a maid or a servant, and as I was chatting with my aunt's friend...I asked questions about the girl. One was, what does she do for fun, where does she go? And her reply was, the girl NEVER leaves the property, she is there ALL THE TIME, and she has no days off. </p>

<p>I think that there's this whole other world of logic going on in other places, about the relationship between those who serve and those who are served. I don't really understand it, but it has to be there...how else to explain people living in such close quarters with each other, justifying allowing this young girl's world to be made entirely of serving other people? </p>

<p>Slavery in the U.S. was just one manifestation of it, but it's still happening in other places, and I think it's a kind of old logic that developed over a really really long period of time. It's bizarre. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:38:28Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203985</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>You do have a choice though.  You ca choose to use conraception and you can choose to not have sex if you don't want to get pregnant.  I am aware those are not fun choices, but you do have them.  And you are aware that when you choose otherwise that action carries with it the risk that you may become pregnant.  Unborn children do not have any agency in you becoming pregnant, you do.  Thus you have taken on an assumption of risk and bear at least some responsibility for that.  The unborn child has no assumption of risk and thus no responsiblity.  Abortion being illegal in most cases would not change the fact that you have a choice in if you give birth or not, it just makes you think about the earlier choices you make that result in your pregnancy more.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:40:12Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203994</id>

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		<title>Comment from The Ninja Zombie on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>The Ninja Zombie</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Many, many people (including me) support the availability of honor killings even though they dislike it very much and wouldn't choose it for themselves.</p>

<p>Because people will put themselves into extremely dangerous situations to kill female relatives who have dishonored the family, we should therefore make honor killings legal to remove that danger.</p>

<p>I hate honor killings-- I think it is awful. I wouldn't have chosen it for myself. But I will not agree to forcing a young man to risk his own life to solve what he thinks is an untenable situation. </p>

<p>(Note: I don't actually support honor killings. Just pointing out that your logic also supports legalized honor killings, and other sorts of murder which puts the would-be murderer in physical danger.)</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:46:52Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:203996</id>

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		<title>Comment from formerly sy on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>formerly sy</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Megan's argument is beyond inapt. Slavery was always been far more concerned with issues of property, not personhood. From her post, I can't tell whether Megan understands the importance of the distinction, or that there is one.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:48:11Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from marta on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>marta</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I don't believe an embryo is exactly the same thing as a living human being -- and I suspect most pro-lifers don't either.  Generally when a woman miscarries at, say, six weeks gestation, even a pro-life woman, she does not name the child, or hold a funeral, or mourn in quite the same way as she would for a six week old infant.  I do think an embryo is something different than a non-person too -- is something different than an animal, for example.  But ultimately, I don't think that answering the personhood question ends the abortion debate, because there are other circumstances in which we as a society are willing to put lesser value on personhood than on some other principle.  The classic argument is that pro-lifers should also be opposed to the death penalty -- that is the same argument that leads some pro-choicers to wonder incredulously how a pro-lifer could murder to stop abortion.  But some pro-lifers make a distinction between innocent life and not-innocent life.  And even accepting that distinction, it seems to me that defining personhood does not end the debate, at least not for most pro-lifers, because the real analogy is not capital punishment but war.  Innocent lives are *always* lost in war.  Always.  Innocent children, in fact.  Yet as a society, we have determined that there are principles -- such as national security (to be charitable) -- that are compelling enough to sacrifice some innocent lives.  I don't think most pro-lifers would disagree with this (a few staunchly pacifist ones would).  But once you agree that there are indeed principles that can justify the taking of innocent life, then we are in an argument about what those principles are, and where you draw the line.  I am willing to grant that embryos are some sort of a person, but that women's ability to control their sexuality and reproductive lives are a greater principle.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:51:20Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from The Ninja Zombie on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>The Ninja Zombie</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Your analogy breaks, for the following reason.</p>

<p>Suppose your elderly master requires your labor not due to age, but because of the consequences of a risky act which you chose to engage in. You knew the consequences, but you chose to engage in this act because it was fun.</p>

<p>Under such circumstances, I'd find it very defensible to require your continued servitude.</p>

<p>The analogy to a woman who *chose* to take the risk of pregnancy is, I hope, also clear. </p>

<p>(Like your post, mine also assumes fetal personhood.)</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:53:43Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Incertus(Brian) on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Incertus(Brian)</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I have a problem with this part, and someone above might have addressed it before, but I'm going to as well:<blockquote>Abortion is a debate between two groups over the ultimate fate of embryos.</blockquote><br />
It isn't. It's a debate over the right of individual women to control their own bodies as regards reproduction. The embryos are a side argument at best, given that such an overwhelming percentage of them never develop into viable fetuses in the first place. The debate is over whether an individual woman has the right to decide whether or not she will carry a pregnancy to term or if the government will determine that for her. That's where the slavery analogy works best, in my opinion--banning abortion results in forced pregnancy for women, and in at least some of those cases, pregnancy against the woman's will. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:56:28Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Lots of people use contraception and <em>do</em> get pregnant. Rape happens. The fetuses in these cases are just as 'innocent' as those where a woman did not use contraception and has willing sex. Why are the logistics so important?</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:58:13Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Matt Steinglass on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Matt Steinglass</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I tried to make sort of the same point in response to Megan that TNC makes here, but he's done it much more effectively and with an amazing citation.</p>

<p>There's something really crucial about the difference between, on the one hand, abolitionists supporting black people's own vocal struggle for freedom, and, on the other, pro-life activists' efforts to get voiceless entities recognized as persons. At the risk of saying something much worse than TNC would handle it, again: at some level, a lot of white abolitionists were sanctimonious busybodies who worked out their own emotional issues by riding off to save the poor defenseless negroes. You're always going to have some of that dynamic with moral activists. And it's very important in any moral cause that the egotism driving a lot of benefactors be counterbalanced by the actual voices and interests of the people they claim to be acting for. </p>

<p>In the case of abolition, things couldn't go too far wrong because the white abolitionists were working to help black people who were pushing to free themselves, acting and speaking in their own interests. They were responsible to real, self-interested people. One problem with the pro-life movement is that the activists aren't responsible to anyone, because fetuses can't talk. We don't know what they want. They can't really be said to "want" anything. That makes this, for a moral outrage-drummer-upper, the perfect cause. There are no troublesome beneficiaries who might start criticizing you or decide you don't know what you're doing or push you out and start doing things their way.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T18:59:34Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>eltoro</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>JD,</p>

<p>This only applies to pregnanices that are the result of consensual sex. What about pregnancies that are the result of rape and/or incest?</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:00:28Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204015</id>

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		<title>Comment from nawimean on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>nawimean</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Spoken like a man who simply can walk away and not bear the physiological responsibilities of pregnancy and childbirth.</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:04:44Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204023</id>

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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>eltoro</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>JD,</p>

<p>In addition, pregancy does last for 9 months, and a person's life situation can change in that amount of time. A woman may discover during the course of her pregnancy that her unborn child has serious birth defects that will be too difficult a burden for she and her husband to bear, particularly if they have other children already. Her husband may lose his job, making the prospect of raising another child financially unviable. The woman may discover that she has a serious health condition that pregnancy will exacerbate to a life-threatening point. Are you suggesting that because a woman didn't foresee, she must be condenmned to carry a pregancy to term in spite of these negative consequences?</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:11:53Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204025</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
		<content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="">
				<![CDATA[<p>The logistics are important because the Abortion should be properly thought of as the competing rights of A) A child who does not want to die and B) a woman who does not want to have the child.  Assuming that we assign equal value to these two competing rights (which I think is generous to the pro-choice side as in all other areas we value Life over any form of non-lethal inconvieneice) then the fact that the woman has accepted the assumption of risk and the child has not is a clear reason to oppose abortion in the normal case. </p>

<p>Rape obviously means that no assumption of risk has occured and adds the fact that being forced to carry the child is a form of continued victimization to the mothers side of the equation, so I think abortion becomes permissible here.  Similarly extreme birth defects or retardation of the child means that the child's quality of life, length of life, and therefore interest in life drops, similarly rebalancing the moral scale in the mother's favor.</p>

<p>Anyone who admits that there is a competing set of rights and wishes to disagree with my analysis based on their own set of rights weighting I will respectfully disagree with.  But people like Black Magic Woman who assert either that the child has no rights or that the woman has not engaged in the assumption of risk I have no respect for.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:15:57Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204030</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>You got it.</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:20:35Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204031</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
		<content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="">
				<![CDATA[<p>I linked to this in the open thread, but somehow it got caught in the filter (I think I had too many links): <a href="http://obsidianwings.blogs.com/obsidian_wings/2009/06/in-which-i-disagree-with-megan-mcardle-some-more.html">Hilzoy vs. Megan.</a></p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:21:20Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204032</id>

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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>eltoro</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>JD,</p>

<p>If your objection is solely to the idea that the unborn child is being punished for the sins of its parents (for engaging in improperly protected sex when they weren't ready to bear the consequences of unintended pregnancy), then how about if the pregnancy is aborted by non-lethal means? Suppose science develops a way of aborting pregnancies through non-lethal means (i.e. a pregnancy can be easily terminated by a medical procedure that surgically removes the embryo or fetus fully intact from the mother's womb, and places the removed embryo or feturs in a machine that will serve as an artificial womb). Suppose most women opt for this non-lethal method, thus achieving the Bill Clinton goal of making abortion safe, legal, and rare. Would you still opt to place legal bans on abortion, even if the method was non-lethal? </p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:21:24Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204033</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>See my above reply, but yes I do think that the assumption of risk applies only to risk that can reasonably be though of as a likely consequence of the behavior.  As such, birth defects or life threatening medical complications do not count as it is not reasonable to assume that sex carries with it the assumption of death or severly deformed children.  It is necessary however to acknowledge that sex carries with it the perfectly reasonable risk of a child. </p>

<p>Look Sex is pleasureable.  It sucks that such enjoyable behavior carries such a weighty consequence as children.  The desire to decouple the risk factors from enjoyable activities is understandable.  But we would not countenance murder for fun in any other area.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:22:03Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204034</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>That is not abortion though.  Abortion, as the term is currently understood, is lethal.  You are talking about Adoption, just 9 months earlier.  I don't know anyone who objects to Adoption on moral grounds.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:23:32Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204035</id>

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		<title>Comment from Ogdred on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Ogdred</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>It was late in my cousin's pregnancy when she learned that her daughter had such a severe defect that she wouldn't survive the birth.  Even then, she and her husband struggled over whether or not to terminate the pregnancy.  Then, the doctors discovered that the baby was also having seizures.  When my cousin learned that, not only was her daughter going to die, but that she was also suffering, she made the gut-wrenching decision to get an abortion.</p>

<p>Look, I don't know where I fall in this debate of whether a fetus is a person or not.  What I do know is that my cousin fully believed in her unborn daughter's personhood -- and that it was this belief in, and honoring of, her daughter's humanity that led her to the difficult and merciful decision she made.</p>

<p>One does not have to deny the personhood of the unborn in order to recognize that abortion can be an ethical, moral choice.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:24:23Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204039</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I actually don't think there's a competing set of rights. I think the woman has the right to what goes on in her own body. </p>

<p>But if I argue on your own assumptions:</p>

<p><em>Rape obviously means that no assumption of risk has occured and adds the fact that being forced to carry the child is a form of continued victimization to the mothers side of the equation, so I think abortion becomes permissible here. Similarly extreme birth defects or retardation of the child means that the child's quality of life, length of life, and therefore interest in life drops, similarly rebalancing the moral scale in the mother's favor.</em></p>

<p>Who 'weighs' these considerations. You? A court? A doctor? As an abstract ethical debate, this might be worth discussing. But on the ground? It's opening a door to the kind of paternalistic, woman-shaming quagmire we had before Roe. Are we going to have to prove that the woman was raped? Does she have to say 'no?' Does she have to have bruises? What happens if it's a date rape, she chooses not to report it, and she ends up pregnant three months later? These things don't happen in a vacuum. These are <em>real women's lives.</em></p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:26:46Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204040</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p><em>As such, birth defects or life threatening medical complications do not count as it is not reasonable to assume that sex carries with it the assumption of death or severly deformed children. It is necessary however to acknowledge that sex carries with it the perfectly reasonable risk of a child</em></p>

<p>I think you severely overestimate the risk of becoming pregnant in the average sexual encounter.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:27:43Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204041</id>

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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>eltoro</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>JD,</p>

<p>So your only objection to abortion as it is currently practiced is that it results in the death of an unborn child. If that is the case, then your whole argument about the assumption of risk is IRRELEVANT. Assumption of risk only applies when your main concern is about making someone bear the foreseeable negative consequences of eariler decisions, and that concern would still matter even if abortion was non-lethal.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:28:32Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204042</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>And if you're not allowed to control your own body, what are you then?</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:28:37Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204044</id>

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		<title>Comment from duffman on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>duffman</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Nice post. Hilzoy also takes down Megan pretty well. But it seems that you and Megan do not mention the role that pregnant mothers have in this debate. Which is odd. </p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:29:48Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204048</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I had a friend's husband ask me, basically, if I weren't more prolife after having a (wanted) baby in my womb, and my first thought was, "you have got to be <em>crazy."</em> Pregnancy and childbirth are <em>hard work,</em> and permanently alter your body.</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:32:14Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204049</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>That analogy sounds more like the responsiblities of parents to care for their infant child in the months and years after it is born during which it will surely die without constant care and attention.  If you decide to just stop caring for your children you are prosecuted for neglect.  If your children die as a result you are procsecuted for their deaths.  I simply do not believe that the act of giving birth is what imparts these obligations, but rather that a pregnant woman should be seen as having these obligations to her child while it is still in the womb, and that they father has the same obligations to provide and assist as well as he is able during pregancy the same as after birth.</p>]]>
		</content>
		<published>2009-06-02T19:33:01Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204051</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I think it speaks to what Dan W said above-- we end up arguing on the pro-lifer's terms, and frankly, the women who are pregnant are pretty much at the bottom of their list of concerns.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:34:55Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204052</id>

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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>eltoro</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
		<content type="html" xml:lang="en" xml:base="">
				<![CDATA[<p>"But we would not countenance murder for fun in any other area."</p>

<p>JD,</p>

<p>It is flippant statements like that which make pro-choicers doubt that pro-lifers are arguing in good faith. It's one thing to argue that the negative consequences of an unintended and/or unwanted pregnancy are a lesser evil than the killing of an unborn child, or even to argue that abortion is used to evade taking responsibility for unwise actions. It's quite another thing to imply that a woman would put herself in such a gut-wrenching situation as a lark.<br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:35:46Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204053</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Risk is the probabilty of an event occurring times the impact the event will have if it occurrs.  Given that the impact is the life of another human being that the woman in question will want to kill, I do not believe that I am overestimating anything.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:36:57Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204054</id>

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		<title>Comment from calexical on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>calexical</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>That's not the whole story, though. You're not just arguing for the right not to be killed. You're arguing for the right to be kept alive <i>through the use of someone else's body</i>. Leaving aside the complications of whether the woman consented, if you're making a pure rights argument, then you have to account for the fact that no one has a right to demand blood, organs, or even food off other people, even if they'll die for lack of them.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:37:32Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204055</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>eltoro, you said "It's quite another thing to imply that a woman would put herself in such a gut-wrenching situation as a lark."</p>

<p>You are missing the point.  You seem to think I mean that people get pregnant on purpose.  I am saying that people have sex without considering the consequences and then complain that they had no choice and should not be held morally accountable for their actions which is BS.  And people do have sex on a lark.  It is one of the main reasons have sex.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:39:16Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204057</id>

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		<title>Comment from kid bitzer on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>kid bitzer</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>my point is: it's in the constitution.</p>

<p>the personhood of slaves was enshrined in the constitution from the very start.</p>

<p>the very constitution that the slave-owners crafted.</p>

<p>the very constitution that brought us the dred scott decision.</p>

<p>even when slavery was contentious, the personhood of slaves was not.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:41:19Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204064</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>It is not irrelevant.  The point is not that I want to make people bear the foreseeable negative consequences of earlier desicions just got fun.  Half of the development of the modern world is about trying to reduce the pain we feel as consequences of our actions.  </p>

<p>The point is that when negative the consequences of earlier actions is weighed against the death of an innocent then the fact that the consequences were a direct result of actions you chose to take matters.  It matter because competing interests are being balanced.  You remove the competing interest from the other side of the scale than of course we the conclusions will be changes.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:48:37Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204066</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>You seem to be talking about an Ideal World here. I am not interested in the ideal world, but the world of reality. <br />
I am not really interested in moral force. Who is to say that your idea of morality matches mine?<br />
I said before that i would not countenance a system that forces women to choose between two evils -- and often to make this choice in a lonely, isolated context, cut off from any support system (as often happened when our mothers were young). <br />
If you promise to adopt all of the unwanted babies that are born, and to fully and utterly support the wide distribution of birth control, then i will perhaps listen to your moral arguments. But until you're ready to put yourself out for those young women, i don't believe you have much of a moral standing in this  situation.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:51:54Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204067</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Wow, aren't you clever. I guess you think you're playing a clever game of Devil's Advocate here. Wow. Touche, you clever thing.  </p>

<p>Why don't you say something useful to the point at hand, rather than trying to come up with clever arguments to impress all of the other clever people you know. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T19:56:15Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204072</id>

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		<title>Comment from JD on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>JD</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>If I told you that the abolition of slavery would destroy the southern economy and that you had no standing to complain about it unless you would personally come pick all the cotton the slaves were no longer picking, I doubt you would take that seriously.  I feel the same.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:01:21Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204079</id>

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		<title>Comment from Juba on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Juba</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>I worry about this debate because I don't really think it's a debate. As both you and Sullivan noted yesterday (Linker, I believe was the original source of the quote), TNC, if you believe abortion is murder, then doesn't it make sense to want to kill abortionists?</blockquote>

<p>Actually this is interesting in that it bleeds over into the Death Penalty debate. How can a Culture of Life argument co-exist with a pro-Death Penalty? Well when one holds the Old Testament view that the only answer for murder is the murder of the murderer. However, we do have legal alternatives involving trial, conviction and incarceration.</p>

<p>The willingness of some Pro-Life radicals to leapfrog these and entertain vigilante tactics, terrorism and murder undermines any morality they can claim.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:05:45Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204085</id>

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		<title>Comment from C.  on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>C. </name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Whether or not abortion is murder is central disagreement in the abortion debate, and thus where your equivalence falters. If everyone thought that abortion was murder, there would be no debate.  Since what happens in a women's uterus during pregnancy is literally the process during which a human being is formed, there will always be debate. For many people, having an abortion is not killing a human but stopping something from becoming human, and the vast majority of people do not regard the latter as the equivalent of murder --- very few anti-abortion groups also argue for a ban on birth control. Because the 9 months of pregnancy is when a mindless, microscopic cell becomes a independent living being, this will always be a gray area, with different people arguing for different thresholds as the point when a definitive transition has been made and a fully human being has been created. </p>

<p>I think you are being a little glib. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:09:44Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204087</id>

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		<title>Comment from deva   on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>deva  </name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I wonder what the point of this parody is, to show that you've no understanding of or respect for the issues at hand? How very puzzling.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:11:19Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204092</id>

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		<title>Comment from Buskertype on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Buskertype</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Do you really think that killing a woman who isn't sufficiently obedient to her husband is morally equivalent to terminating a pregnancy? <br />
If the answer is no than this line of argument is pointless.<br />
If if the answer is yes than I and the vast majority of my countrymen think you are a monster.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:14:08Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204095</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Thank you, nawimean. I'm kind of tired of being lectured at by men who don't have to bear any of the burden, and who have thought it was just fine for centuries to jam what they decided was best for women down our throats. <br />
Men, walk soft here. You are working my last nerve.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:15:56Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204099</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Megan tends to think like my fourteen year old cousins. A bit shallow.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T20:18:37Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204143</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Wow. That sounds like a pretty boring debate. I don't think most people are arguing about where the state currently draws the line about the point in time at which human rights are offered to the individual. The question is not about the law as it stands. It's a question of what the law should be. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T21:20:10Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204152</id>

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		<title>Comment from CitizenE on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>CitizenE</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Insofar as violence being a legitimate tool of those who find abortion murder--an analogy: I, for one, think gun ownership should be controlled in the United States. Guns kill people.  They are the weapon of choice for murder. And I do not believe that the 2nd amendment to the Constitution in fact guarantees gun ownership, except in a singular, and long anachronistic circumstance, the all citizen army necessary to defend the sovereignty of our nation.  I do not believe there is much likelihood that given our current President, who has seemed to aver that the constitution guarantees the right to hunt and that the essential absolute phrase upon which the main clause of the second amendment is based has little meaning, that people will stop purchasing guns with the object of killing their fellow human beings. On what possible moral ground would I stand were I to go into a gun show and take down vendors, Columbine or Virginia Tech style? Would anyone consider me a martyr to a good cause? </p>

<p>I would hope not. I would hope any person who acted thus might rightly be considered not only a hypocrite of the first order, but a homocidal criminal, not given any benefit of political rationalization.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T21:35:05Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204157</id>

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		<title>Comment from deva   on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>deva  </name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I am astounded, as is Persia, with what seems to be your somewhat myopic preoccupation with the abstract and your complete disregaurd for the demonstrably complicated nature of reality (hop on over to sullivan's for the 'it's so personal' testimonials). You argue as though you can draw a straight, clean, bright line from sex to conception to birth and parenthood. And that therefore the risks-consequences  paradigm you set up sounds logical. But it's a canard.  First things first. It seems that you have very little knowledge of how conception works. There is no straight line from sex to conception. In terms of probability, the chances of a conception from unprotected sex are actually quite low most of the month of a woman's cycle. She is fertile for *at most* 6 days during a 21-35 day cycle. A little known tidbit, I know, but true none the less (just ask google). The probabilities that you seem so keen on caluculating are neither high nor constant even for unprotected sex. But of course, since the consequence of even a low probability occurence is, in this case, an eventual person, most of us er on the side of caution.  The risk of pregnancy if you use contraception is, obviously, much much lower than even the normal low risk of intercourse during non fertile periods (which is most of the time). But you acknowledge none of these distinctions, dismissing the expectation of people having sex using contraception that the they will not get pregnant as not sufficiently reasonable. Not as reasonable as the statistically *much less probable* possibility that they will conceive. That seems like a selective application of the "reasonable" standard. </p>

<p>You might want to argue that these calculations are immaterial, but since you rely on probability of risk to make your argument about the tenability of abortion in cases of severe deformity (though interestingly, not the life of the mother), I think that it's fair game to point out how far off your assumptions about "probability" and "reasonable" risk are. You also might want to argue that because the gravity of the impact of the consequences of generally low-risk intercourse, is so great that mere calculations of probability are not enough to decide the queston, but there again, your argument for the extenuating circumstances re: severe deformity fall down. Making the bright lines that you attempt to draw quite a bit dimmer.</p>

<p>But beyond this tinkering with the mechanics of your argument, I think there is a more profound issue at hand. The contempt that you show for the real lives of actual women is vicious in its omission from every calculation you have made. </p>

<p>One fact that you, and many people who consider themselves pro-life refuse to grapple with is that the "consequence" of pregnancy falls disproportionately on the woman who would bear a fetus to viability. Her health and well-being are <em>not separable</em> from that of the fetus' for at least 20 weeks. If she ceases to breathe, the potential inside her ceases to be. This does not obtain the other way around. That does not mean a fetus is nothing more than a collection of cells, but it is a fact that should give those of you who are so certain of the absolutely equivalent personhood of mother and fetus some pause if you are being intellectually honest. Even if a fetus is a person in a philosophical or spiritual sense, which it very well may be, in a physical sense, the non-viable fetus is a potential person with no brain function and no independent physical capacity. This is akin to being brain dead and on life support -- life support provided by the fully independent, agentive, and whole woman who carries the fetus. These two entities -- woman and fetus -- may indeed have competing interests, but those interests are not equivalent.</p>

<p>One can hold the position that a fetus, as a potential person ought be accorded rights, including a right not to die, which must be respected, but it is not the case that these rights have to be weighed 50/50 with that of the woman carrying the fetus. This is because the fetus <em>is</em> literally a part, of a piece, with the woman until it is viable. That means during the time of this strange one-way dependence, the woman's physical interest is <em>the only</em> concretely calculable interest. The fetus' interest is hypothetical even though it is probable that the fetus will develop interests as a physiologically independent person in due course. To interrupt that course may be a grave intervention, but it is quite literally an intervention in to the body of only one individual.</p>

<p>This fact of assymetry points to a need for a subtly of argument that you seem determined to avoid. A pregnant woman is not half of a two headed entity. She is the <em>whole entity</em>, what she carries within her is potential. Perhaps a blessed, miraculous, 'innocent' (as opposed to her what, guilt?), human potential, but a probablity rather than a certainty nonetheless.   </p>

<p>It seems to me that her interests should play not only a partial role, but a <em>determining</em> role in what happens to her as a whole, concrete, physiologically independent entity. A fifty percent share is not enough.<br />
 <br />
This issue is not black and white and pretending that the argument you champion can be based simply on abstract logic is disingenuous as well as disrespectful to the actual choices that real people must make in this world -- this illogical, improbable, surprising, tragic, complex, and liberating world. Reason and logic are beautiful things, but even they cannot deliver us from the heartbreaking messiness of the real. That messiness may not dictate your position, but it at least deserves your respect.<br />
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		<published>2009-06-02T21:43:05Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204164</id>

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		<title>Comment from deva   on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>deva  </name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>The above is meant as a reply to JD's many arguments. I was writing it during the time that comments were turned off and then back on so, I think I got was bumped. Sorry for any confusion.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T21:50:17Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204169</id>

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		<title>Comment from eltoro on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>eltoro</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"The point is that when negative the consequences of earlier actions is weighed against the death of an innocent then the fact that the consequences were a direct result of actions you chose to take matters. It matter because competing interests are being balanced."</p>

<p>JD,</p>

<p>Wrong. If it is a matter of competing interest (the interest of an unborn child to live versus the interest of a mother who does not want to bear the burdens of a taking an unwanted pregnancy to term), it does not matter how the competing interest came to be. What matters is whether one competing interest is more compelling than the other. If your objection is terminating a pregnancy is because it kills someone whose life you feel should be protected by the law, then it does not matter what choices were made by the now pregnant mother beforehand. That is why your assumption of risk argument is BS.</p>

<p>Your assumption of risk argument only carries weight when your paramount concern is not with protecting the life of the unborn, but rather with punishing a pregnant women for getting herself into the situation of unwanted pregnancy, and making sure she bears the consequences for her unwise actions.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T22:00:52Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204170</id>

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		<title>Comment from Juba on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Juba</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Fine post, Deva.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T22:02:07Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204174</id>

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		<title>Comment from Hugo Pottisch on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Hugo Pottisch</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Tend to agree with Ta-Nehisi. There was never ever any doubt that blacks and people on the death roll are full persons compared to an embryo without any brain connections. </p>

<p>Everybody knows that pigs are smarter than a 3 year old human. Yet they have no rights compared to a young human because of the "potential" argument. A pig is not allowed to turn around or see day light because he or she does not have the potential to one day develop the intellectual skills to say vote or for complicated math. Similarity - blacks were not considered to have so much potential as whites. That is why Civil Rights were necessary despite a Civil War.</p>

<p>In the case of blacks one could prove that they are full human beings with the same IQ potential as whites - being able to do the same jobs. In the case of embryos - the same is true.</p>

<p>Why I still agree with TNC is that slavery and abortion arguments are logically very different. With abortion - nobody gets hurt by definition but there is a missed opportunity. With slavery - everybody gets hurt by definition. There is no "real" personhood discussion when it comes to abortion - not in the sense of blacks or animals.</p>

<p>Adult blacks and adult animals both have developed brain connections and nervous systems compared to 8 week old black embryos or days old animal embryos. There is no real person hood discussion from a "scientific" point of view when it comes abortion - just a philosophical one regarding "what could have been".</p>

<p>Animal domestication, by the way, was not a simple process. Human slaver, after the introduction of animal slavery, was simple and "natural". The two development are much more related than we imagine. The term holocaust used to mean animal sacrifice. Then the Nazi's used the first factory farming methods for those jewish pigs. Blacks were beast. As Malcolm said - on the level of cattle. The mistake here is not that blacks are not on the level of animals but that whites are not above it!</p>

<p>This is why Pythagoras, Gandhi, Tolstoy, Leonardo Da Vinci and others called animal "domestication" the roots of all evil. </p>

<blockquote>
Humanity's true moral test, its fundamental test, consists of its attitude toward those who are at it's mercy: animals. And in this respect, human kind has suffered a fundamental debacle, a debacle so fundamental that all others stem from it.
Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being
</blockquote>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T22:15:49Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204178</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Agreed.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T22:28:33Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204183</id>

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		<title>Comment from Juba on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Juba</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Except Lebecka would be dealing in fact--most unwanted babies will not get the kind of support they need growing up and are at huge risk statistically to become a danger to themselves and society.</p>

<p>You however are not dealing in fact--the abolition of slavery was not going to destroy the southern economy, in fact the forces of history (the leap to industrialization) were going to destroy the southern economy; still, the south was stubborn about making the leap for a wide host of reasons and it took the bloodiest war in American history to get them to concede.</p>

<p>Furthermore, after slavery, the slaves did not en masse cease to pick cotton. In fact, many of them were put into the soft shackles of sharecropping and continued picking the same cotton on the same plantations for a modicum of pay, which they were often cheated on.</p>

<p>The attempt to compare slavery to abortion falls short AGAIN.</p>

<p>You pro-lifers really need to find a better example.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T22:39:35Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204196</id>

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		<title>Comment from strangelet on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>strangelet</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Yeah, Megan's point is that the prolifers are driven by "moral intuition" to act against the state, to break the law.<br />
The real analogy is between women's reproductive rights and slavery, not between slavery and differentiated cell clumps.  Autonomy over ones own body in a free republic is a basic citizen right.<br />
IMHO, there is no difference between Christian fundamentalist terrorists and Islamic fundamentlist terrorists as far as the law is concerned.<br />
I'm down with prolifers dying for their cause.....as long as they don't try to take anyone else with them.<br />
Terrorists are terrorists and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.<br />
Can't deal with the rule of law?<br />
gtfo or prepare to be dead or incarcerated, with your cause discredited and despised by the rest of the citizenry. <br />
That goes for you too, Megan.</p>

<p><br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T23:03:30Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204199</id>

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		<title>Comment from Lon on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Lon</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>McCardle is right in the limited sense that the abortion debate, like the slavery debate, should ultimately be one about personhood.  But the particular approach, namely that personhood should be an ever expanding thing is a silly one, not an uncommon one, but a silly one.  Coates is right that the relevant comparison is to the animal rights movement (ok he said veganism, but close enough).</p>

<p>Slavery disappeared because of the humanist movement in philosophy.  It didn't do so right away (humanism began with people like Erasmus around 1600) but philosophic ideas take a while to sink in to the way the average person thinks.  </p>

<p>Once one recognizes that what sets people apart is certain mental faculties then the exclusion of blacks from that category can only be justified by racism.  The idea that something similar is going on in excluding fetuses from personhood is farcical.  That is what Coates is undercapturing in his point about fetuses not being engaged in the fight.  The reason for this is precisely that they lack the faculties that categorize personhood, and any attempt to include them as persons actually obscures the argument against slavery.</p>

<p>After all, one cannot include fetuses in the category of persons without removing notions of reason, choice, free will from the idea of personhood.  The same issue occurs with animal rights issue.</p>

<p>Another point of commonality is that as a practical matter one cannot extend rights more broadly without effectively limiting the rights of persons.  In the case of animal rights these limitations would fall broadly across society.  In the case of fetuses it falls exclusively on women of childbearing age.  But because rights always have tradeoffs it is not enough to say we should be safe and extend rights as broadly as possible.  One needs to actually try to get it right.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T23:13:19Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204200</id>

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		<title>Comment from Hugo Pottisch on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Hugo Pottisch</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>
I haven't yet worked this out, but if you're looking for a moral corollary, it seems to me that the ethics of veganism are actually much closer, in that it involves two parties debating the rights of something that can barely conceive of the terms.
</blockquote>

<p>A grown animal knows if he or she is free or not - if she or he feels pain. An 8 week year old embryo - animal or human - does not feel pain by our understanding. It's brain and nervous system is not developed yet. It is still an "it" compared to an adult human or animal. It is alive like a vegetable but it is for the time being still an object and not yet a subject. As stated above - it has the potential to become a subject one day. A grown animal, as Charles Darwin explains, only differs in degree and not kind from grown humans! </p>

<p>The analogy between animal and black slavery however holds beautifully. <a href="http://www.peta2.com/ALP/">Please visit the museum</a>. One is based on racism and the other on the roots of racism - speciesism.</p>

<p>If I were pro-life - I would first march the streets regarding an end of the death penalty. Those are fully grown adult human people - right? And we are a Christian nation. Then I would march maybe against killing animals for entertainment and taste alone? Once this is all achieved I might turn to those "people" who cannot feel yet but might have potential...? But why start the other way around? Please explain!</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T23:13:27Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204201</id>

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		<title>Comment from Hugo Pottisch on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Hugo Pottisch</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I hope you mean to imply that animals too have reason, choice and free will and that they too therefore deserve the same negative rights as do humans. Especially the the choice and free will part is important - we have learned from history that using "intelligence" as a measure is doggy?</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T23:16:46Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204204</id>

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		<title>Comment from strangelet on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>strangelet</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Yeah, and how about punishing women that "murder their children" rather than assassinating abortion doctors?  The prolife movement treats women like ignorant fleshdolls, incapable of reason or logic or ethics or morallity.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T23:26:37Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204210</id>

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		<title>Comment from Ta-Nehisi Coates on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Ta-Nehisi Coates</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Lon,</p>

<p>You should get a blog. Seriously.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-02T23:43:33Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204217</id>

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		<title>Comment from CitizenE on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>CitizenE</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Exactly.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T00:15:31Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from sporcupine on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>sporcupine</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Firmly pro-choice, and finding this discussion too abstract from the sometimes lovely, sometimes tragic experience of pregnancy</p>

<p>No matter what Aristotle claimed about seven-month quickening,my first child's father saw her move from two feet away at 11 weeks.  </p>

<p>The one who wakes early now slept rarely then.  </p>

<p>The one who sings now danced then when I sang--and smiled twelve hours after birth when I started her already-favorite song.  </p>

<p>The calm one then is the laid-back one now. After the non-sleeper, that part was quite a surprise. </p>

<p>Loud noise upset them all in the fifth month. From brief exploration of the nerve development process, I find it plausible that they felt discomfort and could have felt pain by then, and possible that they did a bit younger.</p>

<p>They were becoming part of us, getting closer to being us every day they grew.</p>

<p>Too many posts above make the equation sound simpler than it is, even though I agree with the pro-choice bottom-line.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T00:22:38Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204233</id>

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		<title>Comment from Mika on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Mika</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>The abortion debate will never be resolved. Partly, because as TNC stated the fetus is voiceless.  Even if both sides agree to personhood and I don't. The debate continues.  Who gets the final say for voiceless?  Isn't that the true question?  TNC, you say "As a pro-choicer, I don't think I'd argue that any child would "want" to have been aborted."  I agree. But as a pro-choicer couldn't you argue that a child would want to be spared a long life of misery.  In late term abortions, I believe many pro-choicers recognize personhood. As a pro-choicer couldn't you argue that a child would want to be spared the pain and agony from health defects especially given that many only live for a few days.     <br />
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		<published>2009-06-03T00:43:27Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204236</id>

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		<title>Comment from Dan W on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Dan W</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Firstly, I totally agree with your point about the death penalty. Although, I'm pro-choice and anti-death penalty, so I've basically made a decision that a convicted murderer/rapist is not ok to kill, but a fetus or embryo is. However, you can also oppose the death penalty on the amount of money it takes to put an inmate to death, and that it's not a successful deterrent of crime. So the ethics aren't as explicit.</p>

<p><br />
Again, I'm pro-choice, so I'm playing Devil's Advocate somewhat here--I don't see "trial, conviction, incarceration" is really an option if you are pro-life. Abortion is legal, it even has zoning protections in some states. No state can outlaw it, they just restrict it. But apparently, restricting isn't enough if you think thousands of innocents are dying.</p>

<p><br />
So you're really left with two options--protest, pray, argue, campaign to make abortion illegal in all it's forms. Or you could find a stop these abortions by more direct means: killing doctors and bombing clinics.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T00:51:31Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204246</id>

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		<title>Comment from Lon on 2009-06-02</title>
		<author>
				<name>Lon</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This gets at what I meant in saying that Coates understated the point.  That fetuses are voiceless is a relevant point.  But it is wrong to think of them as beings with developed wants that it can't make known like the guy in Metallica's One video who is thinking desperately "Kill me, Kill me" but can't get people to understand. (Is that the wrong cultural touchpoint for this blog?) </p>

<p>Rather, the relevant point is that fetuses are not the kinds of things that are developed enough to have desires of that sort one way or the other.  And it is a mistake to think that what the fetus wants is directly rated to what the fetus will come to want when it develops the faculties needed to have such desires.  It is not a question of our not knowing what the fetus wants, there is no fact of the matter as to what the fetus wants which could be known.</p>

<p>It is probably true that in some cases fetuses have deformaties which make it likely that they would be better off not experiencing the pain that is all they are capable of experiencing.  But even that is a different thing from saying they want to die.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T01:16:56Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204247</id>

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		<title>Comment from CrankyOtter on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>You ask: <i>...is there anyway you can't call abortion murder?</i><br />
.<br />
Even a pro-choice person can logically hold the notion that abortion is the murder of a person and still justifiably do it or allow others to do it.  There is precident in the law: the law allows for justifiable homicide.  We can be allowed to kill those who put us at risk for life or limb, however unintentionally they do so in the case of a fetus. (This could lead to arguments of which abortion is justifiable, but really, do you want the woman who couldn't give a damn to be a parent?  Really?  Chances of the baby being healthy at birth and given up for adoption become marginal.)  At any rate, both pro-life and pro-choice can logically hold the notion a fetus is a person and removing it from the mother is murder and come to different conclusions about whether or not it's ok.<br />
.<br />
On another aspect:<br />
As calexical said (Replying to: adamnvillani) June 2, 2009 3:37 PM <br />
<i>That's not the whole story, though. You're not just arguing for the right not to be killed. You're arguing for the </i>right to be kept alive through the use of someone else's body<i>. Leaving aside the complications of whether the woman consented, if you're making a pure rights argument, then you have to account for the fact that no one has a right to demand blood, organs, or even food off other people, even if they'll die for lack of them.</i><br />
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I'll go to the consent argument.  The human baby is fully dependent on the consent of the mother to carry it to term.  It does not have more of a right to life than she does, and it does not have the right to her life.  She has the right to consent to offer it life.  I'll go to the edge and say she has the right to revoke that consent at any time and for any reason. (A "good" parent, by my definition, starts with someone who wants to be one.  Why would we as a society want to force a child on someone who does not want it?  We face risk and require resources there too.)<br />
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For that matter, there is a distinction between consenting to sex and consenting to pregnancy.  99.9% of humans are sexually active by age 25.  Telling fully half the population that they are to avoid any and all sex, since birth control isn't perfect, is a fools dream.  Sex is for much more than procreation.  In turns it's for love, bonding, comfort, deference, domination, escaping, stress reduction, relief, reflex, intimacy, and yes, recreation.  To deny a partner the overwhelmingly powerful love, bonding, and comfort we get from sex isn't a workable solution.  If every act of sex resulted in a pregnancy, our planet would be overrun.  As it is, women in developed nations tend to average 2 children during their 20-30 years of fertility.  It's insane to think they should be celibate at all other times but those two attempts at conception or have the resulting children without demur.  <br />
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The choice that pro-choice is offering is not whether to have children, it's whether to <i>not</i> have children <i>right now</i>.  I think you're right that the rhetoric needs reworking.  The stuff I just wrote is some of the more convincing arguments I've run across for changing the foundation of the argument.  What constantly gets lost in pro-life arguments is the fact that the woman who is pregnant has a right to her life.  Their arguments almost never address that.  Pro-choicers may not be convincing by hammering that home, but the lack of respect for an existing life in favor of a potentially independent life is hypocritical at best.<br />
. <br />
As you say, <i>"A child is something that forever changes one's life--and, though no one seems to want to admit this, it can be devastating for the woman giving birth to it."</i>  Yep.  And that's true even if she wants that child more than anything else, ever.<br />
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		<published>2009-06-03T01:22:13Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204251</id>

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		<title>Comment from CrankyOtter on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This is very well stated, thanks.</p>

<p>When you mentioned 6 weeks, it reminded me of something.  In many cultures, children aren't even named for a month or more.  Or baptisms are left until theres some reasonable surety of infant survival.  Other cultures, over time, have allowed and even required early infanticide to keep the population from overrunning the resources and thus killing everyone through the tragedy of the commons.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T01:31:23Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204255</id>

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		<title>Comment from Lon on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>No, I did not mean that.  And I get the sense from your comment above that even you can't seriously maintain it.  Not that in making your comparison between animals and slaves you need to compare the actual potential of animals with the incorrectly perceived potential of blacks.  This is necessary because there is no relevant difference between blacks and whites as far as personhood issues go, and there are actual differences in the case of animals, even pigs.  </p>

<p>It is still a mistake to think that animals are not deserving of ethical consideration (just as it is a mistake to think that fetuses are not deserving of ethical consideration)  but that is because morality does not reduce to negative rights.</p>

<p>Also, if you want to make the child/pig comparison you need to lower the age to at least 2.  By 3 my daughter was showing a working knowledge of Modus Ponens, and conversational implicature, and even knew the difference between something being actually true and being perceived to be true.  And while my daughter may be exceptional (ok, of course my daughter is exceptional) 3 year olds already have complex thought patterns, even saying 2 year olds may be pushing it.</p>

<p>There does still remain that 1 and under crowd that do remain a problem for those who want to define personhood as I am doing it.  But by 3, the problem is already gone in most cases.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T01:39:25Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204258</id>

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		<title>Comment from Black Magic Woman on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Black Magic Woman</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>JD - </p>

<p>You said below "The logistics are important because the Abortion should be properly thought of as the competing rights of A) A child who does not want to die and B) a woman who does not want to have the child."</p>

<p>I think a significant number of unwanted pregnancies occur in households where if the child were born, s/he might have a TERRIBLE childhood.  I wish that the pro-life contingent would consider the fact that while every life is sacred, it might be a good thing that some children aren't born into horrible circumstances.</p>

<p>I'm not sure every single person - when reflecting back on the circumstances of his/her childhood is glad to have been born.  Regardless, we are all at the mercy of our birth parents - in the short term or the long-term.  We hope our mothers want us to be born and take care of their bodies so we can be healthy.  We hope our families protect us as children so we can grow up safely.  Women who are not forced to give birth are more likely to produce healthier children and healthier living environments for their children.</p>

<p>This goes hand in hand with appropriate conception that functions effectively and clear sex education.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T01:55:12Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204260</id>

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		<title>Comment from Lon on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Lon</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Thanks, I have thought that myself since I seem to be constitutionally incapable of making a point in a single paragraph which is a real drawback for a commentator on other people's blogs.  But I have been stymied by not knowing how to set one up.</p>

<p>I gather TPM is hosting blogs now so maybe I will manage it.  Particularly now that I have my first blurb to put on top.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T01:57:34Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204262</id>

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		<title>Comment from Ta-Nehisi Coates on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>Ta-Nehisi Coates</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Nah. Do it through typepad. It cost like 10 bucks a month. And it's pretty foolproof. I was on typepad until the Atlantic picked me up.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T02:09:48Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204263</id>

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		<title>Comment from strangelet on 2009-06-02</title>
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				<name>strangelet</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Sure the abortion debate will be resolved.<br />
In 8 to 10 years we will have functional ectogenesis.<br />
In Japan scientists have been gestating goat embryos to full term for 4 years now.<br />
We will just be able to drop aborted fetuses into our swell new Bene Tleilax host-womb-vats and gestate them to term.<br />
That is, if anyone wants them.<br />
Perhaps those Christianists screaming about late term abortions will adopt them?<br />
Sadly, most of them will have seriously expensive genetic anomalies to deal with.<br />
But that should be a good use of christian charity and church fundage, right?<br />
Better than using church monies to lobby Cali citizens to discriminate and oppress minority citizens, right?</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T02:10:48Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204318</id>

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		<title>Comment from Miwome on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<name>Miwome</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Not all pregnancies are the result of fun. Some pregnancies--such as many terminated by the late doctor Tiller--are wanted and intended, only to result in fetuses with birth defects that would not allow them to live outside the womb, or only to live for a very short and painful time. Some result in defects threatening the life of the mother. Not to mention that sometimes people get raped.</p>

<p>Furthermore, I reject the notion that sexual activity is some sort of necessarily risky and indulgent behavior rather than a natural part of life. It is perfectly possible to be a sexual being who takes every contraceptive precaution and still has something go wrong. It is further implicit in this construction of sexuality that every time a woman has sex she is taking a needless risk, while men are just...having sex.</p>

<p>The fact is that the burden of unintended pregnancy is disproportionately borne by women. Certainly some men and young men are willing to step up and share those costs, and I commend them, but many are not and do not. In cases where they are not willing to enter indentured servitude, to follow this thoroughly depressing analogy, it is, IMO, ridiculous to tell the girl that she deserved it, knowingly put herself at risk, and should shut up and take the consequences.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T09:07:45Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from Miwome on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Actually replying to eltoro: Thank you. Bravo/a.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T09:11:41Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204321</id>

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		<title>Comment from Miwome on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<name>Miwome</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I guess my thing is this. Pregnancy is an incredibly complicated and variable thing. Every conversation over abortion demonstrates this: some cases are rape cases. Some cases threaten the life of the mother. Some cases involve fetuses which are nonviable or which would (or would very likely) die, even with lots of very painful, invasive surgery, soon after birth. These are just the easiest exceptions to point out; I haven't even gotten into disparities in sex education, power dynamics in heterosexual relationships that extend into the bedroom, economic circumstances, et. al.</p>

<p>I think it's probably not very controversial to say that it is impossible to write a legal code refined, specific, empathetic, and flexible enough to encompass all of this variety and specificity. So then you are faced with a choice: outlaw abortion, and risk that some women who really ought to be able to abort their pregnancies are not able to, and suffer for it (along with their children); or allow abortion, and risk that some women will choose to have abortions when it may not be what "we" view as strictly necessary or correct.</p>

<p>The tipping point for me here is that women as a group are not stupid, they are not selfish, they are not flibertigibbets, and they do not underweight the meaning and importance of motherhood. I have not been pregnant, but every description of the experience I have ever read or heard has made it quite clear that one is very much aware of and connected to the life attached to one's own. Legal abortion does not allow a tidal wave of frivolous, hysterical, selfish women to start aborting willy-nilly and ignore condoms. Will a very few behave this way? Yes. Are they irresponsible and reprehensible? I would say so. But I would be very surprised to learn that their numbers come anywhere close to equaling the women who, in the opposite case, would be forced to carry their pregnancies to term at terrible cost; and under legal abortion, their numbers pale in comparison to those of women who did not want to get pregnant, for whom pregnancy will thoroughly derail life plans, and who are deeply "inconvenienced" (ugh ugh ugh) by continuing the pregnancy, but who do so anyway because they feel a moral obligation to do so for their children.</p>

<p>Ultimately, it comes down to whether you trust women, in the aggregate, as moral actors competent to make good choices or not. I do. Therefore I support legal abortion.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T09:23:19Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204331</id>

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		<title>Comment from Carrington on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Here I was worried that Mr. Coates would start moderating the great Orc-Dwarf debates from sunny SoCal... and he jumps back into the real-world fray.</p>

<p>The Stephens quote is fascinating: what actually changed to prompt the intellectual and moral distinction between Jefferson and Stephens? </p>

<p>My guess is that it is a case of interest driving ideology. Between the cotton gin and the abolition of the _overseas_ slave-trade, slaves change from being captive labor (in Jefferson's time) to owned capital (in Stephens).  As such, the ideology of slavery undergoes a sharp revision over half-a-century as slaves themselves become the slaveholder's equivalent of the 401(K). </p>

<p>It's an interesting point in and of itself, but the historical context also casts a pall over McArdle's comparison between the debates over abortion and the debates over slavery -- at least to the extent that we accept debates over abortion as purely ideological and disinterested.<br />
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		<published>2009-06-03T11:12:07Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204332</id>

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		<title>Comment from Carrington on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<name>Carrington</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Let me know when your blog goes up.  I'll look forward to adding it to my reader.<br />
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		<published>2009-06-03T11:18:28Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204333</id>

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		<title>Comment from Carrington on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<name>Carrington</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"Slavery in the U.S. was just one manifestation of it."</p>

<p>Yes and no -- the U.S. slave system was distinctive because slaves became a form of capital on a large -- 'industrial' -- scale. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T11:22:34Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204335</id>

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		<title>Comment from Carrington on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Carrington</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"In the case of abolition, things couldn't go too far wrong because the white abolitionists were working to help black people who were pushing to free themselves, acting and speaking in their own interests."</p>

<p>Increasingly I'm thinking that abolition did go far wrong in its resort to war. The problem was that the military logic of the Civil War overrode the ideology of abolition. Further, the ensuing desperation for peace long postponed prospects for a reconstruction of the South. </p>

<p>I keep wondering whether a North American 'Cold War' would have been a better solution.  Would the South have fallen in the way that East Germany fell?<br />
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		<published>2009-06-03T11:32:38Z</published>
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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>lebecka,<br />
I understand the sentiment. Of course, none of the men presently living have been jamming anything down the throats of anybody for centuries. If you don't like to be lectured, then perhaps you should rethink the argument that abortion is justified because pregnancy and parenthood are burdensome. No, men do not have a uterus. Women do. Such is the biology of a female mammal. Men didn't create that circumstance. Maybe men have a difficulty, at times, having a proper level of understanding for the burdens of pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood. At some point, though, people in general are going to need to accept some simply truths. People who are "pro-life" are going to need to accept that there are legitimate reasons to choose to have an abortion. People who are "pro-choice" are going to need to accept that an abortion is the killing of a human being, and that therefore there are most certainly illegitimate reasons to make that choice. <br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T11:57:57Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204349</id>

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		<title>Comment from Persia on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Persia</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This is why many pro-lifers are, I think, being absolutely honest when they say they wouldn't want women prosecuted for having abortions. Because they <em>don't</em> think of women as independent moral actors.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T12:38:29Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204357</id>

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		<title>Comment from Lon on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Lon</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>This is a good point, in that it captures my take on the issue. It is not that there could not be occasions in which women act grossly immorally in having abortions.  But there is no reason to believe that in the predominant case women are making difficult considered decisions that they are in a better position to make than I am.</p>

<p>Too much of the discussion (including Justice Kennedy's recent supreme court ruling in a case whose name I don't know) work on the offensive assumption that women can't be trusted to make important decisions for themselves.  The pro-life side really would give their arguments more credence if they were on the front line of providing contraception and accurate sex education information to help prevent unwanted pregnancy.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:12:56Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204360</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>“I don't believe an embryo is exactly the same thing as a living human being -- and I suspect most pro-lifers don't either. Generally when a woman miscarries at, say, six weeks gestation, even a pro-life woman, she does not name the child, or hold a funeral, or mourn in quite the same way as she would for a six week old infant.”</p>

<p>I don’t think that’s a good example for a number of reasons. 1. Six weeks is incredibly early on. When a woman miscarries at six weeks, which is likely before the first OB appointment, and right at the borderline of where the embryo is or is not discernable on ultrasound, it is highly probable that the only verification she’s received that she is, in fact, pregnant is from a store bought test of the hormone levels of her urine. These tests, because there makers are pushing their R&D departments for earlier detection are much more regularly detecting what’s called a chemical pregnancy. Scientists estimate that somewhere near half of all pregnancies end in miscarriage. It’s just that the vast majority of them occur so early in the process that most women are unable to confirm (or necessarily have any idea) that they were pregnant in the first place. This is the dilemma with your six weeks timeline. It would be a better example to push it beyond the point at which the presence of an embryo in the uterus has been established (usually a week or so later in the pregnancy).</p>

<p>Still, all of that is beside the point. And here’s where we get into the semantic argument. To say that an embryo is a living human being is not an extraordinary statement.  All it means is that an embryo an individual member of the species Homo sapiens sapiens and that it has vital functions. It is absolutely not the same thing as saying the embryo is equal to a child who has drawn its first breath. Personhood is a philosophical question.</p>

<p>“I don't think that answering the personhood question ends the abortion debate”<br />
I think you’re absolutely right, but I think the acknowledgement of human being status informs the debate. I do think many on both sides of the debate think it is the silver bullet. “Pro-lifers” repeat it ad homonym because it drives home the moral implications of the act, while “pro-choicers” deny it because, well, because it drives home the moral implications of the act, and they fear giving up ground they took a long time ago. Personally, I’ve always been a big fan of  abandoning positions that have become, or will soon become counterproductive. Conceding points when I’m wrong, or even could be wrong. Yes, “pro-lifers,” on average also favor the death penalty for whatever reason. That is simple hypocrisy. On average, most of the more vehement “pro-choicers” oppose the death penalty. That’s hypocritical, too. But so what. As you pointed out, we can rationalize both hypocrisies away by focusing on either guilt or innocence or, in the “pro-choice” position whether the state should have the right to withhold life (they would also be against the state carrying out forced abortions). At any rate, these are little hypocrisies that are really beside the point. To the point, on the topic of contradiction and hypocrisy within the relevant debate, for my money, it is the “pro-choicers” who are most regularly guilty of  adopting overtly contradictory positions. Here’s an example: An embryo is just a clump of cells, akin in many ways to an organ, parasite, or tumor that is of little significance but which represents a lifetime of burden analogous to enslavement; minutes later, no woman approaches the question of whether or not to have an abortion lightly. (I hope it's clear that I am not really directing that at you, as such.)<br />
 <br />
“I am willing to grant that embryos are some sort of a person, but that women's ability to control their sexuality and reproductive lives are a greater principle.”<br />
I don’t think most “pro-lifers” believe that a woman should not have the ability to control her sexuality or reproductive life (even if they do not approve of some aspect of her sexuality or how she expresses it). I simply think they consider that control best exercised when a woman plays an active role in determining whether or not she becomes pregnant in the first place. That becoming pregnant (at least when it is through consensual means) is a the direct result of a woman exerting control over both her sexuality and her reproductive life. And that upon conception, a woman has biologically accepted the responsibility for the life of her embryo, just as a mother is responsible for the care and life of her child. Mothers have the same rights as women without children. They simply have greater responsibility.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:18:53Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204367</id>

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		<title>Comment from Picador on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Picador</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Your model has at least two consequences you might not have intended:</p>

<p>1. You are arguing, at most, for making abortion illegal (or finding it immoral) in circumstances where the pregnant woman chose to become pregnant. If she was raped, or if she took reasonable precautions against pregnancy sufficient to rule out a finding of negligence, she is free to abort.</p>

<p>2. You argue that someone who owes a debt to another can be forced to pay that debt back with their body in the most invasive, dehumanizing way imaginable. If a woman can be forced by the state to serve as an incubator because of the legal obligation she has to the bundle of cells in her uterus, then men and women who owe unpayable debts can be made sex slaves to their creditors.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:30:58Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204369</id>

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		<title>Comment from Picador on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Picador</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Caring for a child does not involve the state forcing you to incubate a growing clump of foreign cells in your sex organs. If caring for your children involved, say, being forcibly raped, I suspect we (and the Constitution) would take a different attitude toward parents' legal obligations.</p>

<p>We do not allow infants to be killed; children who have been born are considered people. Before this, there are many ways to keep a child from being born, from sexual abstinence to a vasectomy to condoms to birth control pills to abortions. We require potential parents to exercise their options before the child is born, not after. That's a reasonable place to draw the line for a number of reasons.</p>

<p>You seem to believe that conception is the magical moment at which a legal person is created. I've always been curious: is it the moment that the sperm cell breaches the ovum cell membrane? The moment of chromosomal pairing? Which chromosome, specifically? And does this mean that a fertile woman who had sex last night is guilty of reckless endangerment if she gets drunk tonight, or takes medication that may lead to non-attachment of the fertilized ovum?</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:42:02Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204370</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Argh! you're talking about the "johnny got his gun" video from Metallica from their "One" album, I think. So horrifying.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:42:46Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204373</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the lecture, breaker. Anything else my flibber-de-gibbet little female mind can handle, or do you think that's my limit?</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:44:59Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204376</id>

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		<title>Comment from Deborah on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Deborah</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"The pro-life side really would give their arguments more credence if they were on the front line of providing contraception and accurate sex education information to help prevent unwanted pregnancy."</p>

<p>I agree with this. A number of the extreme pro-life also regard the birth control pill as murder, or the morning after pill. People who just disagree with me about when personhood begins are easier to find some common ground with.</p>

<p>That said, Megan's analogy is awful. There was much excuse making of the "they don't reason like us and we need to guide them" variety, explicitly analogizing blacks to children and whites to adults, but enslaved blacks or Africans were never not people--rather obviously they could interbreed with all the other races. </p>

<p>In abortion I don't view an individual cell, or disk, or tube as a person. I think the development is really neat and fascinating, but if a cell is a person I don't see why every egg and sperm is not also a precious individual life--all it needs is one more step, fertilization, to distinguish it from the "people" who are single cells. Why draw the line there?</p>

<p>The line will be murky, so I put it somewhere in the second trimester when the nervous system is getting hooked up. Arguing that an 8-month fetus has rights I can see; arguing that an unimplanted cell (or individual sperm, who just needs an egg, a womb, and 9 months) is also a person leaves me blank.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T13:55:43Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204380</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"And that upon conception, a woman has biologically accepted the responsibility for the life of her embryo, just as a mother is responsible for the care and life of her child. Mothers have the same rights as women without children. They simply have greater responsibility."</p>

<p><br />
Arghhh! Again it's women, women, women, women that have all the responsibility!!! <br />
And yet men feel that they get make the decisions on whether or not abortion is acceptable!!!! You are just not getting the point are you? <br />
Your own choice of words gives you away.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T14:00:08Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204389</id>

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		<title>Comment from Ta-Nehisi Coates on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Ta-Nehisi Coates</name>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>I don’t think most “pro-lifers” believe that a woman should not have the ability to control her sexuality or reproductive life (even if they do not approve of some aspect of her sexuality or how she expresses it). I simply think they consider that control best exercised when a woman plays an active role in determining whether or not she becomes pregnant in the first place.</blockquote>

<p>I think this statement gives a lot of undue credit to pro-lifers. Certainly there are some pro-lifers who feel this way, but I have no real way of knowing how many. That said, I think it's fair to say that the anti-abortion crowd have not been great defenders, and often have been opponents, of birth control. I haven't known the pro-life camp to be outspoken proponents of condoms.</p>

<p>I greatly respect the desire to fully comprehend the other side, and deal with them on their terms. But one can't take the most simplistic arguments of pro-choicers and then match them up against the most broad-minded of pro-lifers. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T14:07:11Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204416</id>

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		<title>Comment from Dan W on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Dan W</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>That point Calexical made is the right one, I think, to get the rhetoric back to the pro-choice side. I'm generally ok with people that are pro-life; that is, I understand the argument. Again, thankfully most pro-life people don't go out and try to kill abortionists. </p>

<p><br />
Calexical's point really changes the argument from a legal one to an ethical one. No one does have the right to demand "blood and organs" from another person in order to stay alive. (Yes, this may acknowledge a level of personhood I don't necessarily agree with for a fetus or embryo, but I'll play along) So when you establish that simple right, all of a sudden the question is now one of personal ethics--it's almost similar to deciding whether to give up a kidney to save a friend. If you extend that metaphor enough, the national transplant list probably correllates with the adoption process more than pro-lifers would like to admit.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T14:39:01Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204427</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>No. I get the point. As a father, and the son of a good father, I absolutely believe that the father shares responsibility. As, I think, most everybody does regardless of their position on the particular question of abortion. That being said, yes, women carry a burden in the reproductive process of our species that men do not carry. From another perspective, they are able to form a more profound connection with their offspring than men will ever have the opportunity. </p>

<p>In the end, that men are jerks who don’t have to carry the baby is hardly a strong argument in favor of choice. It’s just an attempt to quash debate. <br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T14:58:47Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204430</id>

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		<title>Comment from CitizenE on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>CitizenE</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>The pro-life side will never give their arguments credence until they acknowledge the moral rationale for choice.  As I said above, most pro-choice advocates understand the moral ambiguity of abortion insofar as a fetus' personhood is concerned.  I have yet to see someone who is prolife acknowledge the rights of women, especially poor women, on this issue.  I don't care how much sex-ed is provided to women, until men bear and raise children and have at minimum 50% +1 default responsibility for it, the issue will not go away.  Until the privilege of wealth insofar as getting safe blackmarket abortions where it is illegal no longer exists, this issue will not go away.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T15:04:28Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204437</id>

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		<title>Comment from Jess on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Jess</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>=(<br />
I'm so sad I missed this party.</p>

<p>Can I just pipe in late say that the entire comparison of abortion to slavery is utterly idiotic?</p>

<p>Slaves never lived parasitically inside a master's body. </p>

<p>The abortion debate is not about whether a fetus is a person or not. That's completely beside the point. The abortion debate is about which person has more value: the woman carrying the fetus, or the fetus itself.  Whether it is more important to protect a developing brain and body, or to protect the quality of life of an already developed and autonomous brain and body.</p>

<p>People who don't believe in reproductive options don't like to admit that, because it forces them to admit that sex, pregnancy and abortion are much more complicated than "you play, you pay."</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T15:11:08Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204444</id>

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		<title>Comment from R.oB. on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>R.oB.</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>TNC and Lon,</p>

<p>I think you both miss the point of personhood vis-a-vis the justness of the law of the land.  Legally, infanticide is murder precisely because it is the killing of a person before the law and protected by such.  If someone kills a baby, no one questions that a murder took place. That is why the slavery comparison is apt.  A chattel slave is regarded as property before the law and thus not a person and vulnerable in ways a legal person is not.  This was true in the Roman empire millennia ago and it was true in America far more recently.  Today, the "part of the body argument" on the status of the unborn implies they are essentially the property of the mother in that she "owns" her body.  So again, before the law, the personhood of the fetus is at stake.  It is far from farcical regardless of what philosophical means personhood is established or disestablished.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T15:20:27Z</published>
	</entry>

	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204447</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Fair enough. And I share your, let’s call them misgivings, about the expression of the typical “pro-lifer’s” perspective with regard to contraception. But while I agree with you in concept, I don’t think being against birth control in concept or even sex education in practice (another foolish position of many of the more vocal abortion opponents) makes one necessarily opposed to a woman being able to control her sexuality or reproductive life. I agree that it’s murky. But I do not agree that these positions are mutually exclusive.</p>

<p>I think it’s reasonable to read the concept of sexual and reproductive freedom as a state of being in which the woman is not forced or coerced into having sex and is therefore never forcibly impregnated, nor forced, by the state or anyone else, to have an abortion. To say that reproductive freedom extends to the willful termination of healthy pregnancies resulting from consensual intercourse is definitely one interpretation of the phrase. It’s just not the only reasonable one. <br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T15:23:24Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204461</id>

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		<title>Comment from R.oB. on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>R.oB.</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<blockquote>As I said above, most pro-choice advocates understand the moral ambiguity of abortion insofar as a fetus' personhood is concerned.</blockquote>

<p>I don't think so, as Jess below says.  The mother is greater than the child.  I've met plenty of folks whose words for the unborn would make you wince.  They didn't seem like the crazies.  Just normal folks with a strong feminist bent. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T15:43:38Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204474</id>

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		<title>Comment from Juba on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Juba</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Yep, IOW you can choose the ballot or the bullet. Except one of those is legal, democratic and ethical and one is none of those things.</p>

<p>As for the converse, pro-choice anti-cap punishment...</p>

<p>For me the financial argument is part of it. The other is the State ignoring a margin of error that results in the death of innocents.</p>

<p>With the pro-choice issue its about an individual woman settling an unsettled question (when does life begin in the womb?) directly involving her own health and body and life commitments, and not the state.</p>

<p>So if the question is, should the State play God and decide a) who lives and who dies, even if collateral damage is involved and b) should the State play God and decide who is born and who isnt, then I answer no on both counts. </p>

<p>Whether it involves a pre-emptive unnecessary war that kills innocents (Iraq), the Death Penalty (any margin of error kills innocent men and women, unacceptable), Eugenics (sterilize these unfit citizens, promote the birth of boys over girls, restrict the size of families, etc.)</p>

<p>I just dont think the State should have that kind of power.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T15:58:14Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204513</id>

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		<title>Comment from R.oB. on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>R.oB.</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>I forgot to add that my personal take on abortion is much like the vegan take on meat and that comes from my experience of becoming a father.  I saw my son moving and responding to stimuli far earlier than I would have ever guessed happens in pregnancy.  I couldn't help thinking how vulnerable he was and those father instincts kicked in: PROTECT! PROTECT! PROTECT!  It was visceral.  I tell you that made me dead set against non-medically necessary later term abortions.  It's something too cruel for me to support, even the choice.</p>

<p>That said, my wife and I read, learned and experienced a lot about pregnancy and fetal development with our child and that also had a profound effect on me.  Mostly emotional really.  Between miscarriages and the stresses on my wife from the pregnancy, I learned a lot.  I became more pro-choice-ish especially towards the beginning of pregnancy and conception.  George Carlin joked that since sexually active women not using contraception actually pass the majority of fertilized eggs with their menses, they were serial killers.  Stuff like confirmed what my moral compass was telling me.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T16:32:27Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204529</id>

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		<title>Comment from CitizenE on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>CitizenE</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>The mother is greater than the unborn fetus does not necessarily deny the unborn fetus all value. Personally, as a father of daughters and a grandfather of a granddaughter, I must say as a normal person, I do value their health and well being more than that of an embryo or a fetus.  Perhaps others would gladly sacrifice their loved ones for their socalled pro-life ideals. But that does not mean that I wish I had been aborted. </p>

<p>I am not saying there aren't a portion of pro-choice individuals who discount the ambiguity about personhood vis a vis the unborn; however, the complete and abject categorization of pro choice advocates as murderers without cosidering the moral underpining of the prochoice perspective is almost unanimous among prolife advocacy, and this inability is the basis for the intransigence on the quarrel in our nation.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T16:55:22Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204541</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Breaker,  I think you must live in some sort of la-la land, where everyone makes rational decisions, people are calm and never feel undue pressure, and where condoms never break. </p>

<p>Get a grip. Let me say that again. Get a grip on the real world that we live in. You are arguing about philosophical unrealities. The world you are talking about doesn't exist except in your own idealized thoughts. </p>

<p>In the real world, young girls allow themselves to be pressured or romanced into making bad decisions, young women who are not economically or socially responsible enough to parent get pregnant (yes, because they are not perfect and made a bad choice perhaps), and some  _will_ choose to abort, whether or not they are legally allowed to. They will put their lives in danger by going to a hack who will use dangerous methods to abort the baby. Some of them will die or be rendered sterile. <br />
And where are the men while all of this "mistaken" behavior is going on? </p>

<p>Enjoy your idealized world-- i'm gonna live right where I am, and fight for my fellow women in the face of a group that wants to shove them back into the stone age of reproduction. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T17:15:25Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204568</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>lebecka,<br />
I think my grip is quite firm, thank you. You’re arguing with somebody, it’s just not me. I am not arguing against abortion rights. I am not advocating any position whatsoever. Personally, I support abortion rights, although as I think I’ve made clear before, I do not consider this position to be morally righteous or even superior to those who do not. I do consider it to be necessary. </p>

<p>In the current back and forth, I am simply making the point that a particular phrase used by somebody arguing in favor of abortion rights has reasonable interpretations that, like those of the phrase “pro-choice,” lay outside the users particular interpretation. Indeed, my point is that similar phrases are used by both sides of the debate to claim moral high ground and to avoid actually making any attempt to understand the broader view of those with whom they disagree. </p>

<p>You do this. You’re doing this right now. The Stone Age? What the hell are you talking about? Abortion is not a modern marvel created for your convenience. It’s not Velcro or Wi-Fi. It is a tragic medical procedure in which a woman, for whatever reason, submits to having a doctor remove her unborn and developing offspring from her womb, thereby killing it. I’m not sure what kind of idealized world I’m supposed to believe in if I recognize the necessity of that.<br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T17:39:15Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204622</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Again, this is the problem with your line of defense. It’s reactionary and baseless. It’s, dare I say it, overly emotional. You don’t like men talking about abortions because men cannot carry a child? Here’s an analogous argument (with which I do not agree): Women shouldn’t be allowed to discuss military matters because they don’t have to register for the draft. Trust me, there’s a big difference between being subjugated and having your opinion questioned. You don’t like men talking about abortion (unless they defer to your every opinion)? Tough.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T18:36:18Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204643</id>

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		<title>Comment from Lon on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>Lon</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>R.oB,<br />
Apparently it is too late to reply in the right place, so hopefully you will see the response here and consider it to be up above where it belongs.</p>

<p>What I said was farcical was not that a fetus is a person, I think that is wrong but don't want to dismiss it as ridiculous.  What I said was farcical was the idea that denying that a fetus is a person is similar to denying that a slave is a person.  That may sound like a pedantic point, but sometimes pedantic points are important.  </p>

<p>Hugo Pottisch could not make the animal-slave link work because they really are very different in precisely the way that seems most relevant, mental capacity so he had to slide over the difference between actual potential and alleged potential.  </p>

<p>Similarly it makes no sense to say that only prejudice could lead one to believe that a fetus is not a person in the way that only prejudice could lead one to believe that a slave is not a person.  It may be wrong to think that a fetus is not a person, and I am open to arguments on that point, but the idea that the same kind of mistake is being made really is ridiculous.  In fact the opposite is likely true, the people dismissing slaves and including fetuses are in each case making essentialist arguments about kinds, rather than looking to the relevant features of slaves and fetuses.  But I do want to make clear that I was not calling the pro-life position farcical, only one argument made by some pro-life supporters.</p>

<p>I mentioned in the message you posted after, although not really the one that you were responding to, that the infant case is the hardest one for what I think is the right analysis of situation.  It is the hardest not on philosophic grounds, but on rhetorical ones.  I think your second comment captures why we treat infanticide as murder.  We have a visceral reaction to the killing of infants, and where the mother's right to control her body does not come into play, there is no reason not to honor that visceral reaction by treating infanticide as murder.  But I do think there is a real difference.</p>

<p>When I hear about a 5 year old dying I think about the tragedy for that child.  When I hear about an infant dying I think about the tragedy for the infant's parents.  My children are young, so I remember the development period you are talking about well.  It was on that basis I criticized Pottisch for where he was drawing the line.  But there is a reason that most people do not respond to the desperate teen that kills her infant in the same way they do later murders.  (As probably an irrelevant point, Kant, who believed that almost all murderers should be put to death regardless of the consequences to society made an exception for the case of the mother who kills her infant to hide her preganancy.  There is something about this case that has seemed different for a long time).</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T18:58:58Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204656</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>“It's a debate over the right of individual women to control their own bodies as regards reproduction.”<br />
No, it really isn’t. It would make it easier if this were true. It’s not. </p>

<p> “The embryos are a side argument at best, given that such an overwhelming percentage of them never develop into viable fetuses in the first place.”<br />
What does it take to be an overwhelming percentage? A lot? A simple majority. It’s true, scientists do estimate that about half of all pregnancies end in miscarriage. That’s an impressive percentage, to be sure, but overwhelming. I guess it could overwhelm ones expectations. Still, how does that make the fate of an embryo a side argument? Is it because you don’t want to talk about the fate of an embryo? From where I stand, the fate of the embryo/fetus stands front and center in the abortion debate. </p>

<p>“The debate is over whether an individual woman has the right to decide whether or not she will carry a pregnancy to term or if the government will determine that for her.”<br />
There are a number of ways to frame the debate. Here’s another way to frame the very debate you cite: The debate is over whether an individual woman has the right to decide whether or not to kill her unborn and developing offspring, or if the government should have the authority to prevent her from doing it. Mine is the very same argument. I simply do not adopt euphemisms.</p>

<p> “That's where the slavery analogy works best, in my opinion--banning abortion results in forced pregnancy for women, and in at least some of those cases, pregnancy against the woman's will.”<br />
This analogy only works in terms of nonconsensual sex. If a woman is not forcibly impregnated (either by violence or coercion), she is not even arguably forced into pregnancy. It’s true, a prohibition would require that a woman carry her baby to term, but that by itself has very little to do with slavery. <br />
</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T19:08:22Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204672</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Again, thank you for informing me of my inability to think and verbalize clearly and to separate reason from emotion. When you are ready to stop lecturing and perhaps instead _ask_ the opinions of the childbearers who take on the bulk of the burden when carrying a child instead of laying down the law as you see it, then let's chat. Until then, you don't seem to have much to say beyond how irrational I am. </p>

<p> </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T19:25:36Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204686</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>If I am not arguing with you, why do you keep replying to me, breaker? </p>

<p>Please see my reply to you at 3:25 (in the earlier thread where you point out my emotional irrationality). i really have nothing else to say to you on this point. </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T19:36:31Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204699</id>

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		<title>Comment from lebecka on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>lebecka</name>
				<uri></uri>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Yes.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-03T19:51:34Z</published>
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	<entry>
		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204839</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
		<author>
				<name>BreakerBaker</name>
				<uri></uri>
		</author>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Look. For the record, the emotional line was supposed to carry with it a certain level of snark. If it didn't come off, then I apologize. </p>

<p>I do think it's an emotional argument you're making. You're "tired of being lectured at by men who don't have to bear any of the burden, and who have thought it was just fine for centuries to jam what they decided was best for women down [your] throats." Now, if we are to be both reasonable and fair, nobody here has crammed anything down your throat for hundreds or thousands of years. Likewise, nobody here seems to even be arguing that it's okay to cram anything down your throat. I haven't read the full series of JD threads. I figured the sheer volume of them were the reason TNC shut the comments down initially. At any rate, nothing I said should be read as a defense of his arguments. </p>

<p>My point is and has been this. You speak of a burden. I do not deny that pregnancy is a burden borne mainly by the woman. I assure you, over the last three years, I've become pretty well acquainted with the burdens of pregnancy and parenthood. Still, the burden alone cannot be used to justify the procedure. The argument cannot be that it's simply not fair that women got the short end of the stick when it came to reproductive duties. That rationale sounds petty, and you and I both know there are far stronger arguments in favor of abortion rights/choice. </p>

<p>Likewise, to treat everybody with whom you disagree as if they are the enemy really isn't all that helpful. If I entered into this portion of the thread in too brash a manner then, again, I apologize. Still, you are going to have to accept that this is a topic on which reasonable people can disagree without regard to gender. Whether all of us try to exercise it or not, most of us have the power to empathize and to sympathize. Most of us understand the various dilemmas faced by women and young girls, and I'm pretty sure just about everybody in here is "pro-choice" to some degree or another. But even if that wasn't the case, I think we should make some kind of an effort to respect the fact that everybody's got an opinion and everybody has a right to their opinion. The question should not be do we agree with one another. The question should be do we have a genuine understanding of one another. It is my belief that for the most part the answer is no and that most of us barely make the effort. I think we should be trying to do better, but what I think a lot of the posts that have driven these threads go to show is that it isn't a universally held belief. Even in what I think is a pretty good and intellectually curious (and honest) blog.</p>

<p>At any rate, if I genuinely offended you, I am sorry. It was not my intention. But if you're tired of being challenged by men on this topic, you should bring the pain. What you should not do is break out the kung fu that relies too heavily on tired memes of adversarial gender politics. It's weak.  </p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-04T00:18:52Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:204865</id>

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		<title>Comment from BreakerBaker on 2009-06-03</title>
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				<![CDATA[<p>"If I am not arguing with you, why do you keep replying to me, breaker?"<br />
I guess I chalk it up to a combination of boredom and common courtesy. My point, if it was unclear, was that the argument you were arguing against was not an argument I was making. You seem to imply that I have been advocating a position. On the contrary, I am advocating that we attempt to better understand a position. To recognize that many of the reasons people are "pro-life" are, in fact, quite sensible. If you want to argue against that analysis or hypothesis, then feel free to do so. If you want to argue that the example reasoning (with regard to the broad interpretation of reproductive freedom), then feel free. You did neither. You decided instead to condescend. Worse, you did so off point. </p>

<p>I mean, you told me to get a grip, but made no clear reference to any clue you'd discovered that I'd lost my grip? In fact, you spent four graphs talking down to me without displaying any proof that you had either read or comprehended the post to which you were replying. Why was this? The sort of obvious interpretation would be that you are incapable of having an adult discussion on this topic with someone who disagrees with you. Indeed, you can't even accept it when somebody who generally agrees with you makes an argument that seeks to understand a position with which you disagree. This interpretation tends to point one to the reasonable conclusion that your default MO, rather than attempt to understand, is to condescend and to be generally nasty. </p>

<p>So yeah, you're arguing with somebody. But it had literally nothing to do with anything I had said. If you want to argue with me, and I assure you that you probably don't, you're going to have to bring more than this. It would be nice if what you brought was a bit more than generally, arguably on topic. But yeah, bring more than this. I don't get offended, or shaken when an anonymous stranger says mean things to me on the interweb. </p>

<p>If, on the other hand, you wanted to have an adult back and forth, I would be more than pleased. We could let bygones be bygones. I am genuinely interested in hearing what you would have to say. Otherwise. Over and out.<br />
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		<published>2009-06-04T02:51:34Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:205438</id>

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		<title>Comment from des on 2009-06-04</title>
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				<name>des</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>here's my take on personhood.</p>

<p><br />
Paradox</p>

<p>You who think the embryo<br />
has a fully human soul,<br />
you who call abortion sin --<br />
hear the paradox of twins.</p>

<p>In the caverns of the loins<br />
a sperm and egg have joined.<br />
Soon the cell divides;<br />
the cluster grows in size.</p>

<p>A future member of our race<br />
drifts towards its nesting place.<br />
What's this?  The cluster splits,<br />
separates in equal bits.</p>

<p>Strange, but true --<br />
what was one is two:<br />
two tiny particles,<br />
genetically identical.</p>

<p>You who claim to speak for God --<br />
don't you find it rather odd<br />
one egg became two twins?<br />
Tell me when the soul begins.</p>

<p>At the moment of conception,<br />
before their separation,<br />
was there one soul, or two?<br />
Does this problem puzzle you?</p>

<p>Was this a miracle:<br />
two souls in one particle?<br />
Or did one soul split<br />
and half go in each bit?</p>

<p>Or do you think that sperms have souls?<br />
Will you banish birth control?<br />
Does it make you squirm<br />
when I mention sperm?</p>

<p>Monks chanted "Te Deo"<br />
as the Church judged Galileo,<br />
but the earth still revolves,<br />
and humanity evolves.</p>

<p><br />
Peter H. Desmond</p>

<p><br />
Originally published in the Spring 1995 issue of As We Are, this poem won the 2004 Cambridge Poetry Award in the category “political poem.”</p>

<p><br />
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		<published>2009-06-05T01:58:04Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:205506</id>

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		<title>Comment from Hugo Pottisch on 2009-06-05</title>
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				<name>Hugo Pottisch</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>Lon</p>

<p>You have issues. </p>

<blockquote>Hugo Pottisch could not make the animal-slave link work because they really are very different in precisely the way that seems most relevant, mental capacity so he had to slide over the difference between actual potential and alleged potential.</blockquote>

<p>I could not make it because you do not want it - that is all. Not because common sense or rationality is not there. Again - if you believe in evolution - then you have to think about Darwin's: "there is no fundamental difference between humans and animals. If there is a difference it is in degree and not kind."</p>

<p>I do not need Kant to tell me that my dog or any pig has ALL the mental capabilities that I have or you have. They feel as we do emotionally and they think as we do albeit with smaller "hard disks". </p>

<p>Again - the only reason why my animal-slave analogy failed with you is the same reason why Mary Wollstonecraft's A Vindication of the Rights of Woman failed with Mr Thomas Taylor.</p>

<p>The sad lesson here is that despite all the case studies from history - that children do not feel pain, that black mothers do not love their children so much... we still are waiting for "them" to "equal our imagines superiority" before we display basic ethics. That is so scary.</p>

<p>We know that animals feel like us. That they have free will like us. That I love and suffer. That they need autonomy to be happy. They are after all anima. We even know that animals are smart and think like us. What on earth do you need to allow them to move around and to see daylight?</p>

<p>Aristotle was the beginning of the end for Greece. Descartes was a byproduct of true enlightenment and not a root force. When it comes to animals - we are intellectually and philosophically as weak as ever. Ironic - as we have no other roots. All our thinking and philosophy which is not in touch with these roots is worse than burning money as it leads to evil outcomes. The only reason why we are not in touch is our inferiority complex, our need to feel better than other and to be superior and feared and respected.</p>

<p>PS: show me how you are capable of more complex thought than my dog and I shall invite you for a barbeque where we will eat him. By complex I do not mean what meta level you can reach due to our human terabits instead of the few gigabits of animals. I am seeking difference in type and not degree. If you can show this to me - I will light the fire.</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-05T11:21:14Z</published>
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		<id>tag:ta-nehisicoates.theatlantic.com,2009://8.18625-comment:206244</id>

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		<title>Comment from Francesco Sinibaldi on 2009-06-06</title>
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				<name>Francesco Sinibaldi</name>
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				<![CDATA[<p>As if...</p>

<p>The blackbird<br />
lives in a<br />
country like<br />
a rose in the <br />
dreamland, <br />
and even a <br />
pleasure declares<br />
in a moment<br />
that intention<br />
of love.</p>

<p>Francesco Sinibaldi</p>]]>
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		<published>2009-06-06T20:20:32Z</published>
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